The mother’s dreams and duties were soon brought to a melancholy close.
In September, 1744, the little heir had his first severe experience
of life, and, perhaps happily, it was too much for him. He died of
convulsions while cutting his teeth. A few joyous tumbles on the blanket,
a few kisses, a few honeyed words, and much pain at last, made up all
that he knew of life. Mrs. Montagu tempered her heavy grief with much
active occupation and study. She meekly attributed the loss of her son to
God’s visitation on her confidence in her own care and watchfulness. She
may be said to have lost with him her hopes, her joys, and her health for
a considerable period. In September, 1744, she wrote to the duchess:
“Poor Mr. Montagu shows me an example of patience and fortitude, and
endeavours to comfort me, though undoubtedly he feels as much sorrow
as I can do; for he loved his child as much as ever parent could do.”
She discovered all the virtues in Mr. Montagu that adversity needs, and
adversity only can show. “I never saw such resignation and fortitude
in any one; and in the midst of affliction there is comfort in having
such a friend and assistant. It was once my greatest happiness to see
him in possession of the dearest of blessings. It is now my greatest
comfort to see he knows how to resign it, and yet preserve the virtue and
dignity of his temper.” They never had another child; and, if they were
not altogether as happy as before, they were, at least, as cheerfully
resigned as heirless rich people could persuade themselves to be.
Occasionally, however, she envied happier mothers. Referring to one of
these, nearly twenty years later, who was then stricken by a profounder
grief, Mrs. Montagu wrote to Lord Lyttelon: “Poor Mrs. Stone, between
illness and affliction, is a melancholy object. I remember that after my
son was dead, I used to envy her her fine boy; but not being of a wicked
disposition, did earnestly wish she might not lose him. Poor woman! her
felicity lasted longer than mine, and so her grief must be greater: but
time is a sure comforter.”
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