A moment of madness, and other stories (vol. 3 of 3)Marryat, Florence
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A moment of madness, and other stories (vol. 3 of 3)
Marryat, Florence
English fiction -- 19th century; Short stories, English
But the idea as to what constitutes starvation has risen with the times.
A little while ago, it used to be the clergyman with a large family on
eighty pounds a-year: a twelvemonth back it rose to the celebrated ‘three
hundred;’ and but a few weeks since I heard a lady gravely affirm that
any one who contemplated marriage now-a-days with an income of less than
two thousand, must be either a madman or a fool.
Knowing my incompetence for the task, I have no intention in this paper
of trying to decide on how small a sum it is possible to maintain a
family in this luxurious age. I only wish to say a few words upon what I
consider to be the secret of the economy which has need to be exercised
in these days in the largest household as well as in the smallest.
The order of her household is a true woman’s battle-field, and the better
she can manage it, the more comforts she can command, and the more
regularity she can enforce upon a small income and with few servants, the
greater is the triumph of her victory. If means are unlimited the triumph
is lost; and the woman who has a thousand a-year for her housekeeping,
and is content to let her husband enjoy no more luxury upon it than
his friend who spends five hundred, allowing the surplus to be wasted
for want of a little thought or supervision, is not a true woman or a
good one. For if prodigality is not a sin in itself, it arises from the
indulgence of a combination of sins, amongst which selfishness holds
chief rank.
Take the care of her household out of a woman’s hands and what remains
for her to do? As a generality she would sit in idleness, for these are
not the days when mothers nurse and look after their own children, and,
thanks to the sewing-machine, the toil of needlework is over, even in the
poorest families.
She would probably take up a novel the first thing in the morning,
thereby unfitting herself for any solid work for the remainder of
the day; or she would waste her time on fancy-work, or unnecessary
letter-writing, or on anything but what sensible people who know they
will be called to account hereafter for the use they have made of the
brains God has given them would do.
And, as a rule, I believe few women would like to be lightened of
their trouble in this respect. The sex is uncommonly fond of a ‘little
brief authority,’ and even those who have every aid at their command,
generally choose to dabble in their housekeeping affairs. And it is just
this ‘dabbling’ which does harm, which often increases the expenses
instead of lessening them.
I am not a second Mrs Warren; I have no ambition to try and teach my sex
how to manage their husbands, houses and children on two hundred a-year,
by wiping out the bread-pan every morning with a clean cloth; and making
one stick of wood do the duty of two by placing it in the oven to dry the
night before.
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