165; § 122 The mountain climbing, p. 165; § 123 The view at the top, p. 166; § 124 The detail of the peak, p. 168; § 125 Reflections at the top, p. 169; § 126 Accelerating fetishisms, p. 170; § 127 Climbing together, p. 171. VI. CONTROL 175 § 128 Evolution of erotic over egoistic-social; individuality and control, p. 175; § 129 Erotic control is the only real individuality, p. 178; § 130 The conventional demand, p. 179; § 131 Love impulse the only thing left, p. 181; § 132 Control is not annihilation, p. 182; § 133 Difference between man’s and woman’s control, p. 183; § 134 Man’s lack of erotic control unnecessary, p. 184; § 135 Woman’s inability to control erotically, p. 186; § 136 Phantasy of honeymoon bliss; the test, p. 187; § 137 Women’s confusion of the two controls, p. 190; § 138 Woman’s development dependent on husband’s, p. 192; § 139 Woman’s acme not conditioned by husband’s, p. 193; § 140 Insensitiveness, p. 193; § 141 Anesthesia, p. 195; § 142 Supremity of male control misunderstood, p. 195; § 143 Objection answered, p. 196; § 144 Interplay of control on egoistic-social level, p. 197; § 145 Fallacy of erotic control by woman, p. 198; § 146 Prolongation of love episode, p. 201; § 147 Failure of illicit unerotic sex act to relax erotic tension, p. 203; § 148 Development of husband imperative, p. 205; § 149 Precipitancy caused by fear, p. 206; § 150 Woman’s instinctive attempt to accelerate, p. 209; § 151 Her unconscious man-testing, p. 211; § 152 The wrong instinctive reaction of the husband to the test, p. 212; § 153 Man should know what to expect, p. 214; § 154 Responsibility _vs._ Fate, p. 216; § 155 The husband’s hallucination, p. 217; § 156 The solitariness of crowds, p. 219; § 157 The wife’s unavoidable resistance, p. 221; § 158 Bride buried under stones, p. 222; § 159 The only truly virile accomplishment, p. 224; § 160 The husband’s anesthesia, p. 224; § 161 Metonymy, the part for the whole, p. 225; § 162 Phantasy, p. 226; § 163 Control through imagination, p. 228; § 164 A score of sense qualities, p. 229; § 165 Manner of mental influence, p. 231; § 166 The work of the mental pattern, p. 231; § 167 Need of a love pattern, p. 232; § 168 Completing the fragmentary wife, p. 233; § 169 More vividness for women, p. 234. VII. THE UNHAPPY MARRIAGE 236