A Portraiture of Quakerism, Volume 1: Taken from a View of the Education and Discipline, Social Manners, Civil and Political Economy, Religious Principles and Character, of the Society of FriendsClarkson, Thomas
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A Portraiture of Quakerism, Volume 1: Taken from a View of the Education and Discipline, Social Manners, Civil and Political Economy, Religious Principles and Character, of the Society of Friends
Clarkson, Thomas
Society of Friends
It is recorded of the great Sir Matthew Hale, who is deservedly placed
among the great men of our country, that in his early youth he had been
in company, where the party had drunk to such excess, that one of them
fell down apparently dead. Quitting the room, he implored forgiveness of
the Almighty for this excessive intemperance in himself and his
companions, and made a vow, that he would never drink another health
while he lived. This vow he kept to his dying day. It is hardly
necessary for me to remark that he would never have come to such a
resolution, if he had not believed, either that the drinking of toasts
had produced the excesses of that day, or that the custom led so
naturally to intoxication, that it became his duty to suppress it.
The Quakers having rejected the use of toasts upon the principles
assigned, are sometimes placed in a difficult situation, in which there
is an occasion for the trial of their courage, in consequence of mixing
with others, by whom the custom is still followed.
In companies, to which they are invited in regular families, they are
seldom put to any disagreeable dilemma in this respect. The master of
the house, if in the habit of giving toasts, generally knowing the
custom of the Quakers in this instance, passes over any Quaker who may
be present, and calls upon his next neighbour for a toast. Good breeding
and hospitality demand that such indulgence and exception should be
given.
There are situations, however, in which their courage is often tried.
One of the worst in which a a Quaker can be placed, and in which he is
frequently placed, is that of being at a common room in an inn, where a
number of other travellers dine and sup together. In such companies
things are seldom conducted so much to his satisfaction in this respect,
as in those described. In general as the bottle passes, some jocose hint
is conveyed to him about the toast; and though this is perhaps done with
good humour, his feelings are wounded by it. At other times when the
company are of a less liberal complexion, there is a determination, soon
understood among one another, to hunt him down, as if he were fair game.
A toast is pressed upon him, though all know that it is not his custom
to drink it. On refusing, they begin to teaze him. One jokes with him.
Another banters him. Toasts both illiberal and indelicate, are at length
introduced; and he has no alternative but that of bearing the banter, or
quitting the room. I have seen a Quaker in such a company (and at such a
distance from home, that the transaction in all probability never could
have been known, had he, in order to free himself from their attacks,
conformed to their custom) bearing all their raillery with astonishing
firmness, and courageously struggling against the stream. It is
certainly an awkward thing for a solitary Quaker to fall in such
companies, and it requires considerable courage to preserve singularity
in the midst of the prejudices of ignorant and illiberal men.
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