Short stories; United States -- Social life and customs -- 19th century -- Fiction
Produced by David Widger
A POSITIVE ROMANCE
By Edward Bellamy
1898
My friend Hammond is a bachelor, and lives in chambers in New York.
Whenever we meet on my occasional visits to the city, he insists on my
spending the night with him. On one of these occasions we had been
at the opera during the evening, and had witnessed an ovation to a
beautiful and famous singer. We had been stirred by the enthusiasm of
the audience, and on our walk home fell to discussing a theme suggested
by the scene; namely, the tendency of man to assume a worshipful
attitude towards woman, and the reason for it. Was it merely a phase of
the passional relation between the sexes, or had it some deeper and more
mysterious significance?
When I mentioned the former idea, Hammond demanded why this tendency
was not reciprocal between the sexes. As a matter of fact, while women
showed endless devotion and fondness for men, their feeling was without
the strain of adoration. Particular men’s qualities of mind or heart
might excite the enthusiastic admiration of women, but such admiration
was for cause, and in no way confounded with the worshipful reverence
which it was man’s instinct to extend to woman as woman, with secondary
reference to her qualities as a particular person. No fact in the
relations of men and women, he declared, was more striking than this
contrast in their mutual attitudes. It was the feminine, not the
masculine, ideal which supplied the inspiration of art and the aroma of
literature, which was found enshrined in the customs and common speech
of mankind. To this I replied that man, being the dominant sex, had
imposed his worship on the race as a conquering nation, its gods on
the conquered. He, not woman, had been the creator of the art, the
literature, and the language which were dedicated to her. Had woman been
the dominant sex, the reverse might have happened, and man been obliged
to stand upon a pedestal and be worshiped.
Hammond laughed, but declared that I was all wrong. Man’s tendency to
worship woman, while naturally blending with his passional attraction
towards her, did not spring from the instinct of sex, but from the
instinct of race,--a far deeper and generally unrecognized impulse.
Even though woman should become some day the dominant sex, man need
suffer no apprehension of being worshiped. His modesty would be
respected.
Some time later, when we had cozily established ourselves before a
sea-coal fire in Hammond’s quarters, with divers creature comforts at
hand for one of our usual symposiums, the subject came up again; and
under conditions so favorable to discursiveness our talk took a wide
range.
“By the way,” said I, apropos of some remark he had made, “talking about
the adoration of woman, did not that crack-brained Frenchman, Auguste
Comte, propose something of the sort as a feature of his ‘Religion of
Humanity’?”
Hammond nodded.
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