A Preliminary Study of the Emotion of Love between the Sexes — John Shaqi
A Preliminary Study of the Emotion of Love between the SexesBell, Sanford
Science
A Preliminary Study of the Emotion of Love between the Sexes
Bell, Sanford
Child psychology; Love
Case 1. A little boy of four began to show the most devoted love
for a young lady. Even when she was absent the mention of her
name would cause an expression of almost worship to pass over his
little face. She gave him her picture, and every night he said
his prayers to it and kissed it good-night. There was no cloud in
his sky until one day he heard two members of the family
discussing the arrival of a young man who was interested in the
young lady. No notice was taken of the little one, and when
dinner time came he was missing. He was found in the
carriage-house--a little bundle of indignation--getting ready to
drive down town. In the carriage he had put his father's
shot-gun, and he vowed vengeance on the young man who was
“stealing away” his “darling,” as he called her. It took some
time to pacify him, and he was only satisfied when the young lady
herself appeared on the scene and promised him she would not
marry the young man. That was nearly three years ago, and he is
still as devoted a little lover as he was then.
Case 2. A little girl of five showed great affection for a boy of
twenty-one. She used to climb upon his lap and caress him, and he
never forgot to have some little delicacy for her in his pockets.
This little girl had a pet kitten which her parents did not wish
her to play with, and so her brothers coaxed the young man to
kill it, thinking that she would think anything which he did all
right. But the child's conduct towards him changed, and she
didn't care for him as before. She is now nineteen years old, but
whenever she sees him she thinks:--“He killed my pet.”
Case 3. I knew of a little girl not more than four years of age
who became warmly attached to a young gentleman. He laughingly
said to the child “I will wait for you.” She did not forget the
remark, but looked upon him as her ideal. Every act of friendship
between him and other lady friends was noticed with a jealous eye
by the child. The young man travelled through the West, and while
there met a lady who later became his wife. When the child
learned this she was very angry and hated the lady. She did not
feel differently about it until she was grown.
Case 4. A girl ten years old became very fond of a young man of
nineteen while they both were attending school. She would wait
for him to walk home with her from school. She took great pride
in her personal appearance, and would always wonder if it would
please him. This affection lasted through one winter and the next
summer. After that the girl seemed to care for the boys of her
own age.
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