A Sketch of Assam: With some account of the Hill TribesButler, John, Major
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A Sketch of Assam: With some account of the Hill Tribes
Butler, John, Major
Assam (India) -- Description and travel; Assam (India) -- Social life and customs; Ethnology -- India -- Assam
The fourth and last ceremony is Shadee (or marriage), when a great
feast is given at the damsel's house by her parents to the friends
of both families. The presents consist of:--
Rs. Ans. Pice.
Fish, rice, diel, oil, salt, greens,
and chillies 3 0 0
Betel nut and betel leaf 1 0 0
One piece of Moongah silk 1 8 0
One Burkopper cotton cloth, for the
girl's father or brother 1 0 0
Gao dhun, dower or price of the girl,
paid to her parents in ready cash 9 0 0
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Total rupees 15 8 0
The bridegroom is kept awake all night by feasting, dancing,
and singing; and in the morning, all having broken their fast,
the bridegroom accompanies his bride to his own dwelling in a
regular procession. Drums, cymbals, and gongs take the lead; the
bride follows either in a palkee, or mounted on a pony; or, if very
poor, she walks in the midst of her female acquaintances, covered
from head to foot with a white cotton cloth or veil thrown loosely
over her; and the bridegroom and his friends bring up the rear. On
arrival at the bridegroom's house, his friends partake of a repast,
and return to their homes in the course of the afternoon. The young
couple then take up their abode, generally in a newly erected house
adjoining their parents' dwelling. The whole expense of the marriage
conducted on this scale amounts to sixty-five rupees fourteen annas;
but only the better orders disburse such a sum. If the parties are
in very affluent circumstances, however, many hundreds of rupees are
expended. The poorer class, from inability to incur further outlay,
are not unfrequently married at the second ceremony of Nowae toolun
for four or five rupees, including every expense.
Should the parents of the girl, contrary to the marriage contract or
betrothment, give their daughter to another person, it is incumbent
on them to refund the value of the presents they may have received
on different occasions for a number of years previously. Yet in few
countries, probably, will the number of violated contracts or promises
of marriages be found to exceed those of Assam. The litigation and
ill-will consequent on these ill-advised agreements is incalculable,
and the complaints under this head in the civil courts are innumerable.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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