Social sciences; United States -- Politics and government -- 1901-1909
¶But the Nation is in a bad way if there is no real home, if the family
is not of the right kind, if the man is not a good husband and father,
if he is brutal or cowardly or selfish; if the woman has lost her sense
of duty, if she is sunk in vapid self-indulgence or has let her nature
be twisted so that she prefers a sterile pseudo-intellectuality to that
great and beautiful development of character which comes only to those
whose lives know the fulness of duty done, of effort made, and
self-sacrifice undergone.
¶In the last analysis the welfare of the State depends absolutely on
whether or not the average family, the average man and woman, and their
children, represent the kind of citizenship for the foundation of a
great Nation, and if we fail to appreciate this we fail to appreciate
the root morality upon which all healthy civilization is based.
¶No piled-up wealth, no splendor of material growth, no brilliance of
artistic development, will permanently avail any people unless its home
life is healthy, unless the average man possesses honesty, courage,
common-sense, and decency; unless he works hard and is willing at need
to fight hard, and unless the average woman is a good wife, a good
mother, able and willing to perform the first and greatest duty of
womanhood, able and willing to bear and to bring up as they should be
brought up, healthy children, sound in body, mind and character, and
numerous enough so that the race shall increase and not decrease.
¶¶There are certain old truths which will be true as long as this world
endures, and which no amount of progress can alter. One of these is the
truth that the primary duty of the husband is to be the home-maker, the
breadwinner for his wife and children, and that the primary duty of the
woman is to be the helpmeet, the housewife, the mother.
¶The woman should have ample educational advantages; but save in
exceptional cases the man must be, and the woman need not be, and
generally ought not to be, trained for a life long career as the family
breadwinner; and, therefore, after a certain point the training of the
two must normally be different because the duties of the two are
normally different.
¶This does not mean inequality of function, but it does mean that
normally there must be dissimilarity of function. On the whole, I think
the duty of the woman the more important, the more difficult, and the
more honorable of the two; on the whole I respect the woman who does her
duty even more than I respect the man who does his.
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