A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
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A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.
Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
Women physicians -- United States -- Biography; Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth), 1829-1902
After I received the doctor’s reply, I took the letters, the patient
and the doctor into a private room, and informed them why and how
I had acted in the affair. Then I read both letters, and this was
followed by an apology on both sides and the matter was ended.
Then, although the patient left the Hospital, she could not say that
the doctor was not courteously treated by me. Nor could she say that
justice was not done to her.
After this, the doctor and I together had an interview with the
student, and we said as little or as much as was necessary to make her
more careful, and that was ended.
As it happened, Dr. ----’s patient was one of more education and she
saw that she was in the wrong, so she apologized and remained until
the doctor discharged her.
I don’t think that either you or I are the last authority on such
questions. They should be settled with all concerned in harmony and
even with polite treatment of the culprit, should there be one.
If you lose your temper with a coworker, it lowers you in the eyes of
patients or of others a great deal more than it hurts her. Everybody
feels with or for the punished one, and nobody with the one who
punishes or condemns.
I find that in going through the wards now, all the patients feel
attached to the doctor and are full of her praise, and they hope she
will have a good time and come back to her arduous duties with her
usual strength, fine spirits and cheerfulness.
As soon as Dr. ---- comes home, we shall work out rules for the
physicians so that these will be ready for our next meeting. And if
they are then properly discussed, I think it might be a good plan
to have them printed in our report so that patients may learn their
extent and on whom they depend.
Again, one of the doctors was evidently suffering from a wounded
_amour propre_, feeling that she had not been treated with
sufficient consideration. She had apparently expressed her grievance
to Dr. Zakrzewska, and then being dissatisfied with the result of her
interview, had tried to express herself more definitely in a letter.
Dr. Zakrzewska replies:
MY DEAR DR. ----:
I will answer the last paragraph of your letter first, because this
is the straw which shows how the wind blows, and it also confirms my
impression concerning the cause of your manner. I have nothing to
forgive in your manner because, personally, you have never offended
me. I therefore have nothing to forget either.
But forgetting that we are colleagues and professional women
interested in the same work and in the same great cause where harmony
is so desirable, you seem to think, or rather you assert, that I
should remember your years and your condition of health, which is to
account for your speaking without thinking....
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