A year of prophesyingWells, H. G. (Herbert George)
History
A year of prophesying
Wells, H. G. (Herbert George)
Civilization, Modern -- 20th century; Europe -- History -- 20th century; Great Britain -- History -- 20th century
Miss Robins thinks she is at war with men; she is really at war with
sex. She wants to have men restrained, reproached, and incessantly
scolded for things for which they are no more responsible than girls
in a nunnery. Women dress extravagantly, paint their faces, brighten
their eyes, wear high heels, disregard serious for trivial effective
interests. It is the men, she says, who make them do it. It is not. It
is the presence of men in the world which leads to these exaggerations
and intensifications of sexual attraction; but that is a different
matter altogether. If all men were reduced to a helot class, there
would still be magnificent dresses and extreme physical display by
women. And men do not welcome women as a sort of neutral competitors
in their fields of work, because sex imposes a different attitude upon
them. Sex is mentally as important, if not more important, to a normal
man than it is to a normal woman. I am not writing of what ought to be,
but of what is. Sex is an enormous physiological burthen for a woman,
but not, it would seem, in most cases, such a mental burthen, and it
does not last out her lifetime as it does a man’s. But for a normally
constituted man woman is the natural symbol of life, and he cannot live
fully and happily without her companionship and reassurance. She has
a material need of his strength and his greater power over resources,
but he is dependent upon her for gifts of peace and encouragement that
cannot be covenanted for.
Nature’s way has always been a paradoxical way, and it is a fundamental
fact in this connection that as human life struggles up from the
instinctive level we find no prepared adjustment of woman’s mind to
man’s. There is no feminine mind different from and reciprocal to
a man’s mind. They are both, man’s mind and woman’s mind alike, in
the form of pure egotism. As the life of man becomes more civilised
and mental, his need for an adequate helpmeet increases. He can no
longer get along with a woman bought or captured and set to her
special business in the harem. But while his need for a free and
willing helpmeet increases and his demands upon her expand, we find
no corresponding disposition in able women to co-operate with men.
They seem to want to drop their sex and set up as imitations of all
the successful male types. They become a new sex of little aggressive
pseudo-men. They want to wear the wig of the judge and carry the mace
in just the same spirit that makes the dressmaker adapt soldiers’
uniforms and turn the djibba of a dervish into a coquettish garment.
They want to substitute Great Women for Great Men in our histories
and turn out Buddha and Mahomet and Christ in favour of feminine
equivalents. They will presently want a Lady God in a world in which
the male will be a fading memory. It will be a parallel and parodied
world. That is what makes this tumultuous eager book so significant and
so dismaying. It is an incoherent silly sort of book, but it is written
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