"About My Father's Business": Work Amidst the Sick, the Sad, and the SorrowingArcher, Thomas
Religion
"About My Father's Business": Work Amidst the Sick, the Sad, and the Sorrowing
Archer, Thomas
Pastoral theology
The policy of the authorities, says Mrs. Hilton, in
her interesting narrative of the Crèche, in stopping outdoor
relief to poor widows with children is causing much
sorrow. The 2s. 6d. or 3s. received from the parish
secured their rent, and they managed, with shirt-making
or trouser-finishing, to earn a bare subsistence; but now
the battle for a mere existence is terrible. Doubtless,
the children would be better cared for in the House, but
mothers cannot be persuaded to give them up. One
such case has just passed under my notice; but the
woman shall speak for herself. "'Oh, Mrs. Hilton, they
have taken off my relief!—I, with four little ones who
cannot even put on their shoes and stockings. They
offer me the House; but I never can give up my children.
Look at baby; he is ten months old; his father died
of small-pox six months before he was born; he was
only ill five days.' I told her I was afraid she would
not be able to earn enough to keep them all. 'Well,'
she said, 'I must try—I will never go into the House.'"
"But these women have very little feeling for their
children, they are so low and brutalised." Are they?
Let those who think so visit this Cradle Home, and
witness the bearing of the mothers who come to take
their little ones home, or to nurse the sucklings at intervals
snatched from work. Let them hear what such
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poor women will do for children not their own, even to
the extent (as recently took place, in one instance, at
least) of sharing with their less necessitous babes the
natural sustenance that the mother cannot always
give.
Sixty-five children received daily and a hundred or
more on the books, with space needed for many more
than can be admitted; children who, some of them infants
as they are, have learned to lisp profane oaths and babble
in foul language, and to give way to furious outbursts of
passion, the result of neglect and evil example, and the
life of the street and the gutter. It is but a short time,
however, before this strange dreadful phase of the distorted
child mind disappears, and the pet name is bestowed
along with the gentle kindness that obliterates
the evil mimicry of sin. The baby taken home from
this purer atmosphere of love becomes a messenger of
grace to many a poor household, as the short annals of
the Crèche will tell; and even the pet names themselves
are adopted by the mothers in speaking of and to their
own children. One short story from the first report sent
out by Mrs. Hilton, and we will go our way with a hope
that some words of ours may win a fresh interest for these
little ones.
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