As the children ask very absurd questions about sex, so they ask very
absurd questions about God. As we are taken aback, and say foolish
things to them over the one subject, so we do over the other. As we
ought to prepare ourselves for the one opportunity, so we ought for the
other. As we must answer properly about sex, so we must answer properly
about God. It is bad enough to shut them up over sex; it is worse to
shut them up over God. They are trying to get at something. They, at
their end of life, are like Sir John Falstaff at his end of life――you
remember the account of his death, by the hostess of the Boar’s Head
Tavern:
So ’a cried out――God, God, God!――three or four times. Now I,
to comfort him, bid him ’a should not think of God; I hoped
there was no need to trouble himself with any such thoughts
yet.
Whatever we say to the children we must never say that. But who will
teach us what we ought to say? Perhaps we might make a rule that we
will try not to play down to their childish notions. On the contrary,
we will try to tell them that our grown-up notions are hardly less
childish than theirs. We cannot worship their little graven image,
but we can confess to them that our own image is a very poor thing.
They will be glad to hear of the feebleness of our thoughts. We want
to lead them out of their first position: we want to get them a little
further on the interminable quest. We shall not do that by accepting
and adopting their idea of God, using it as an argument or weapon
against them. But we may perhaps be of use to them, if we explain to
them that we, even we, are nothing better than babies, when it comes
to attempting to think of what we really mean by the Divine Name.
Let us inform them plainly, that the best that we can do for them is
to conduct them out of the poverty of their minds into the poverty of
ours. It is possible, also, that we might find it a good rule with
children, to make less use of the word “God,” and more use of the
word “the Spirit,” or “the Holy Spirit.” This word “Spirit” is not
associated in their minds with any bodily shape; it may thus help them,
as time goes on, to forsake their little graven image.
I do believe that these two ideas――the idea of sex, and the idea
of God――are of the utmost importance to us in our dealings with
children and with adolescents. If we are to think of constructing and
reconstructing human lives as if they were houses, let us have the
proper materials for it, and let us handle them wisely. These two ideas
are good materials; they will take any amount of construction and of
reconstruction, and, if we build as we ought, they will stand the very
heavy strain which will be put on them. Please forgive me, that I am
treating my subject on these old-fashioned lines; I did not choose it:
the authorities chose it for me. They ought to have given it not to
a mere grandpapa, but to somebody worthy of the unmusical name of an
educationalist.
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