Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to Oxford: In Ten Letters, From an Uncle to His Nephew — John Shaqi
Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to Oxford: In Ten Letters, From an Uncle to His NephewBerens, Edward
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Advice to a Young Man upon First Going to Oxford: In Ten Letters, From an Uncle to His Nephew
Berens, Edward
University of Oxford -- Students; Young men -- Conduct of life
The habits of study and of intellectual improvement, which you acquire
at Oxford, you should carry with you into the vacation. During the
vacation, you may, perhaps, take more time for society--the society
especially of your own immediate family--and more for relaxation; but
still do not _waste_ your time; still consider yourself as responsible
for the right employment of it. Make sure of the ground which you gained
during the term, by going over by yourself, what you then read with your
tutor. Improve your acquaintance with the standard writers of our own
country, and acquire some knowledge of modern history. In short, make
the most of your leisure. Read Bishop Home's sermon on redeeming the
time, and the papers in the Spectator and the Rambler to which he
refers. Read, _and learn by heart_, what is said on the loss of time in
the second of Young's Night Thoughts:
"Part with it as with money, sparing; pay
No moment but in purchase of its worth."
But my letter grows long, and (you will say) tedious.
I remain,
My dear Nephew,
Your affectionate Uncle.
FOOTNOTES:
[62:1] Vol. I. No. 14.
[66:1] John Duncan, Esq. and Philip Duncan, Esq. of New College.
LETTER VI.
PUNCTUALITY.
MY DEAR NEPHEW,
I ventured to give you some advice respecting the employment of your
time; perhaps I ought to follow up that letter with a few remarks upon
PUNCTUALITY. Unless you acquire the habit of punctuality, you will be
apt, not only to lose your own time, but to make unjustifiable inroads
upon the time of other persons.
Endeavour, therefore, to _keep to your time_ in every appointment,
whether the appointment be made by yourself or by others, (the college
authorities for instance,) whether it be with a superior, an equal, or
an inferior. Whether it be in a matter of business or in a matter of
pleasure, try always to be true to it. Let this be your system and your
habit. Some deviations from punctuality may now and then be unavoidable;
but do not let them occur unless they _really are_ unavoidable in
fairness and reason. If you have yourself made an appointment, your word
is, to a certain degree, pledged to your keeping to it. The case is in
some measure the same, when, though the appointment is actually made by
others, you have acceded to it.
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