Africana; or, the heart of heathen Africa, Volume 1 (of 2) : $b Native customs and beliefsMacdonald, Duff
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Africana; or, the heart of heathen Africa, Volume 1 (of 2) : $b Native customs and beliefs
Macdonald, Duff
Africa, East -- Social life and customs; Missions -- Africa, East
(4) Another way of procuring a wife is simply by buying. Two skins of a
buck is a fair price in the Mangoni country. Similarly wives may be paid
over in settling debts.
(5) Young men are sometimes presented with wives by the masters or
guardians of the latter.
(6) The case of wooing is treated below (56).
When a man’s wife dies he gives an offering to her spirit (cf. 41), and
goes to seek another to fill her place. A wife whose husband is dead
may not get another so quickly lest he should die also (82). There is
nothing to prevent a man from marrying his sister-in-law; but no man may
marry his sister, a fact that is brought out very distinctly in a common
native conundrum, which might be rendered, “What is the fruit that you
must not pluck, however sweet it may be?”
A couple may marry though they belong to different tribes, and can hardly
communicate except by signs.
55.—RANKS AMONG WIVES.
As a rule a man has one wife that is free, while the other three or four
are slaves. If he be the chief of a village his wife also gets the title
of msyene wa musi, or “possessor of the village”. His other wives are not
called slaves, but ladies of the harem (akusyeto), although their status
is really that of slaves.
The chief wife is generally the woman that was married first. There
may be exceptions. For instance, if the principal wife be betrothed in
infancy to a full grown man, this man will take a female “to fill the
place of the betrothed infant”.
After being married for a year or two the husband is almost expected to
get junior wives. These the chief wife, as a matter of courtesy, calls
her younger sisters (apwao).
We have seen instances, however, when a great strife arose on the
introduction of the other wives, and where the chief wife would threaten
a separation, and carry it out too. But these were instances rather of
self-will than of conformity to the customs of the country. It is an
object of common aspiration to be possessed of five wives.
The chief wife has the superintendence of the domestic and agricultural
establishment. She keeps the others at their work, and has power to
exercise discipline upon them. The punishment she inflicts for laziness
is to banish junior wives from meals until hunger bring them to their
senses. When a junior wife is very obstreperous her superior may put her
in a slave stick. The authority of the chief wife is not a matter to jest
with. I knew a case of a junior wife that had her infant child promptly
put upon the fire by this terrible overseer.
When a man is severely pressed by some legal action and has to pay heavy
fines, he begins by selling off his junior wives. When reduced to one
wife he has reached the highest point of distress. His free wife he
cannot sell, as she is under the protection of her surety (60).
_Plurality of Free Wives._
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