"And be sure to fall asleep as soon as you can, and before you awake out
of your first sleep, you shall see him come before you, and shall
perceive by his habit what tradesman he is; and be sure thou declare not
thy dream unto any one in ten days, and by that time thou mayest see thy
dream come to pass. All this I have proved three times; for I have had
three husbands, and they all proved tradesmen. The first was a straw
joiner, the second a louse-trap maker, and the third a gentle craft, and
he came to me with his awl in his hand, and so I waked out of my dream;
but I thought the time long till he came again; as all maids do that
desire to be married. I know some maids would wait in order to have a
husband with the best conditions, and endowed with the best
qualifications; nay they would have impossibilities: but I am afraid
they will make good the old proverb, that says--
'If you will not when you may,
When you would you shall have nay.'
"Therefore, take my advice, if a young man comes to you of a civil
carriage, and you think you can love him, be not scornful to him, but
give him a civil encouragement, according to his behaviour."
And as to young men, my advice is, they be wary in their choice, since
there is as much danger in choosing of a wife as a husband: wherefore,
all young men, take my advice: choose not one with a long nose, a
scolding brow, and thin lips, for in such there is great danger. He who
is tied to a scold is tied to sorrow; choose not one who is counted a
slut, if she be a slut, she is idle also, and these two companions will
bring thee to poverty; nay, besides this, the old saying is, 'A slut
will poison the gout, and if you can't eat with her, you won't sleep
with her.'
But this is the best way of choosing a wife: Take one for love, not for
riches which fly away, for true love never varies; and where that is,
the blessing of God is. If you desire to live a long life, be not
overfond of riches, but choose a civil handsome maid, who is not given
to pride: such a maid may make a fine wife. But she that brings a
handsome fortune, will be always throwing it in your teeth, which often
occasions great disturbances; therefore let this suffice for those who
desire to get good wives; and take notice of what I have already said,
and you may fare the better.
And as for young maids, this is my advice, if they will not try St.
Agnes, let them be sure to choose a clever, honest man, who is able to
support them in comfort.
PART II.
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