Again: we find that, both in sorrow and in joy, the mind seeks for the
sympathy of others, while this grateful and soothing boon it is delightful
to bestow. So, also, the consciousness of being the cause of good to
another sends joy to the heart, while the recipient is filled with the
pleasing glow of gratitude in receiving the benefit. The consciousness of
virtue in acting for the general good, instead of for contracted, selfish
purposes, is another source of happiness, while those who witness its
delightful results rejoice to behold and acknowledge it. What bursts of
rapturous applause have followed the exhibition of virtuous self‐sacrifice
for the good of others from bosoms who rejoiced in this display, and who
could owe this pleasure to no other cause than the natural constitution of
mind, which is formed to be made happy both in beholding and in exercising
virtue.
This same beneficial economy is manifested in a close analysis of all that
is included in the affections of _love_ and _gratitude_.
It has been shown that, in the commencement of existence, the young mind
first learns the sources of good and evil to self, and its sole motives
are desire for its own enjoyment.
Soon, however, it begins to experience the happiness resulting from the
relations of minds to each other, and then is developed the superior power
of _love_, and its importance as a regulating principle.
In the analysis of this affection, it is seen to consist, first, in the
pleasurable emotions which arise in view of certain traits of character in
another mind. When these qualities are discovered, the first result is
emotions of pleasure in the contemplation. Immediately there follows _a
desire of good_ to the cause of this pleasure. Next follows the desire of
reciprocated affection—that is, a desire is awakened to become the cause
of the same pleasure to another; for the desire of being loved is the
desire to be the cause of pleasurable emotions in another mind, in view of
our own good qualities. When we secure this desired appreciation, then
follows an increased desire of good to the one who bestows it.
Thus the affection of love is a combination of the action and reaction of
pleasurable emotions, all tending to awaken the desire of good to another.
This passion may become so intensified that it will become more delightful
to secure enjoyments to another than to procure them for self.
In what is thus far presented, we find that the desire of good to another
results solely from the fact that certain mental qualities are _causes of
pleasure to self_. Of course, this desire ceases when those qualities
cease to exist or cease to be appreciated. This kind of love is the
natural result of the constitution of minds in their relations to each
other, making it _easy and pleasant_ to live for the good of another in
return for the pleasure received from their agreeable qualities and
manifestations.
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