As far as ladies are concerned, politeness appears to consist chiefly in
a man's putting himself to more or less inconvenience, or exposing
himself to danger, on their account. With regard to the last, I do not
know but I could acquit myself to advantage, partly from the peculiar
recklessness that is acquired at sea; and partly because facing danger,
in the protection of the weaker sex, is both the duty of the stronger,
and the stronger generally can do it with less embarrassment, than
perform those innumerable, nameless, attentions, already alluded to. I
cannot say, however, that when walking out with ladies, I have felt
peculiarly desirous of the apparition of a mad bull, a ghost, or the
devil, to give me an opportunity to show my courage; but I think it is
certainly easier to most men to expose themselves to danger, in the
service of a lady, than to perform acceptably, and without awkwardness,
those little acts of politeness, that, in the present state of society,
ladies are somewhat rigorous in exacting. I have passed the very cream
and flower of my life at sea, that is, from nineteen to thirty-two, and
now, "in these latter days," begin to feel myself very much like a fish
out of water. How often have I "sailed into the northward" of a fair
lady's displeasure, for neglecting to assist her into, or out of, a
carriage! never dreaming, "poor ignorant sinner" that I am! that the
ascent up the steps of a coach was attended with any more perils, than
that of the stairs that lead to her bed-room; or that a girl, perhaps
twenty years my junior, glowing in the full bloom of youth, health, and
sprightliness, and with a step as light and elastic as Virgil's Camilla,
required the assistance of such an old weather-beaten beau as myself.
How often have I been pouted at by the ripest, rosiest, lips in the
world, for omitting to wait upon their owner home, on a dark, stormy,
evening, and half a mile out of my way, simply because I preferred the
company I was with, to the half-mile _heat_! I do not know that I have
ever felt very desirous of living my life over again; but I confess I
should like to go back, say, to the age of three or four and twenty,
merely to take a few lessons in the graces, and then "jump the life to
come," as far as where I am now, namely, _thirty or forty_.
By Mr. Coffin's management, Morton and Isabella were much of the time
together, and both instinctively avoided any allusion to painful
subjects. He described to her the various implements used in the
whale-fishery, gave her a short account of the voyage, and of the
different parts of America, and of the islands in the Pacific, that he
had visited; and, in short, exerted himself to please and entertain her,
and was successful.
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