When in the society of those we love, and from whom we are soon to
separate, perhaps forever, how much we can manage to say in a little
time! how earnestly do we strive to render delightful those moments,
perhaps the last that we are ever to pass with those friends! Dr.
Johnson says, the approach of death wonderfully concentrates one's
ideas; so does the approach of the hour of parting.
Isabella heard herself, for the first time, for many years, addressed in
the language of respectful politeness, and unassuming common sense; the
pictures of refined, polished, and enlightened, society, drawn in the
few excellent English authors her mother had left her, seemed realized
and presented to her eyes, in all the richness of life. She did not
stop to analyse, or try to explain to herself the peculiarly delightful
feelings that occupied her mind; though if she had been left alone for
five minutes, her own good sense would have told her it was love: that
pure, unalloyed, unreflecting, ardent, _first_ love, that, like the
whooping-cough and the measles, we never have but once; though some
patients have it earlier in life, and more severely, than others.
Ladies will never admit, and never have admitted, from the time the
stone-masons and hod-carriers struck work upon the tower of Babel, (for
want of a circulating medium of speech, that would be taken at par by
all hands, down to the present Anno Domini, 1834, and twenty-second of
October,) that any of their sisterhood ever fell in love "at sight," as
brokers call it, or that her eyes influenced her heart. With regard to
the female, who, in early life, takes up the "trade and mystery" of a
fashionable belle, _ex officio_ a coquet and a flirt, this is in some
measure true; for I have observed, that very beautiful women of that
description, who have had at their feet wealth, and talent, and
eloquence, and virtue, generally "close their concerns" by marrying
sots, fools, gamblers, rakes, or brutes; they seem to choose their
husbands as old maiden ladies do their lap-dogs; which are invariably
the most cross, ugly, ill-tempered, filthy, noisy, little scoundrels,
that the entire canine family can muster. But their practice is at
variance with their profession. It is physically and morally impossible
that women, whose chief strength consists in external appearance and
show, should hold in light esteem external appearance and show in our
sex; and, if they are not guided by their eyes in the choice of their
lovers, I should like to know what the d--l they are guided by; for in a
company of feather-pated girls, the chief object of ridicule is the
personal defects of their male acquaintance.
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