unfortunately are sons of Samaritan women”? I have no objection to that
either. You may draw what conclusion you please; for I think it is very
difficult to put forth two contrary opinions, without both of them
containing some grains of truth. But the book has not been written
either for or against marriage; all I have thought you needed was an
exact description of it. If an examination of the machine shall lead us
to make one wheel of it more perfect; if by scouring away some rust we
have given more elastic movement to its mechanism; then give his wage
to the workman. If the author has had the impertinence to utter truths
too harsh for you, if he has too often spoken of rare and exceptional
facts as universal, if he has omitted the commonplaces which have been
employed from time immemorial to offer women the incense of flattery,
oh, let him be crucified! But do not impute to him any motive of
hostility to the institution itself; he is concerned merely for men and
women. He knows that from the moment marriage ceases to defeat the
purpose of marriage, it is unassailable; and, after all, if there do
arise serious complaints against this institution, it is perhaps
because man has no memory excepting for his disasters, that he accuses
his wife, as he accuses his life, for marriage is but a life within a
life. Yet people whose habit it is to take their opinions from
newspapers would perhaps despise a book in which they see the mania of
eclecticism pushed too far; for then they absolutely demand something
in the shape of a peroration, it is not hard to find one for them. And
since the words of Napoleon served to start this book, why should it
not end as it began? Before the whole Council of State the First Consul
pronounced the following startling phrase, in which he at the same time
eulogized and satirized marriage, and summed up the contents of this
book:
“If a man never grew old, I would never wish him to have a wife!”
POSTSCRIPT.
“And so you are going to be married?” asked the duchess of the author
who had read his manuscript to her.
She was one of those ladies to whom the author has already paid his
respects in the introduction of this work.
“Certainly, madame,” I replied. “To meet a woman who has courage enough
to become mine, would satisfy the wildest of my hopes.”
“Is this resignation or infatuation?”
“That is my affair.”
“Well, sir, as you are doctor of conjugal arts and sciences, allow me
to tell you a little Oriental fable, that I read in a certain sheet,
which is published annually in the form of an almanac. At the beginning
of the Empire ladies used to play at a game in which no one accepted a
present from his or her partner in the game, without saying the word,
_Diadeste_. A game lasted, as you may well suppose, during a week, and
the point was to catch some one receiving some trifle or other without
pronouncing the sacramental word.”
“Even a kiss?”
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