Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and Manners — John Shaqi
Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and MannersFerrero, Guglielmo
History
Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and Manners
Ferrero, Guglielmo
America -- Civilization; Europe -- Civilization; Justice, Administration of -- Rome; Progress
In fact, if in the ancient marriage so little liberty of choice was
reserved to the man, it is easy to understand that not a ghost of it
was conceded to the woman. The man had in addition one advantage.
Constrained to submit to the will of the father as long as the latter
was alive, he became, when the father died, absolute master of his
wife, because he could then repudiate her and marry another, how and
when he chose. The almost unfettered liberty of divorce, without any
motive, or for the most futile motives, might well be some compensation
to the man for the subjection in which the father, while alive, kept
him. For the woman, there was no compensation at all. As long as her
father lived, she had to obey the man to whom her father gave her. When
the father was no more, she still remained in the power of her husband,
who could not only repudiate her without any motive, but even marry
her to another. In the history of Rome, especially, the men used and
abused this privilege in a way, which to us seems sometimes ridiculous,
sometimes revolting, and always extravagant. Especially in the last
century of the republic, when the struggles between the parties became
intense, the most eminent statesmen adopted the habit of consolidating
their alliances with marriages. Therefore, we see every political
vicissitude of importance shrouded in a curious web of divorces and
marriages. Now one great man hands his wife over to another, now he
marries the other’s daughter, now gives him his sister to wife. The
poor women wander from one house to the other, change husbands from
one year to another, with the same facility with which, nowadays, a
traveller changes his inn. For all these marriages lasted only as long
as the political combination on account of which they were entered
into. When the combination was dissolved, divorce broke up all or most
of these families, and the husbands set themselves to contract new
marriages. It was so easy for the husband to get a divorce. He needed
only to write his wife a letter announcing his intention!
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