Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and MannersFerrero, Guglielmo
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Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and Manners
Ferrero, Guglielmo
America -- Civilization; Europe -- Civilization; Justice, Administration of -- Rome; Progress
Fifteen or sixteen years was considered the suitable age for a bride.
Sometimes girls were married when they were barely fourteen, while
nowadays it is rare for a girl to marry before she is twenty, and the
majority marry between the ages of twenty and thirty. Furthermore, in
many states of the ancient world the legal age for matrimony, both for
the woman and the man, was much lower than it is to-day in European and
American legal codes. This is not surprising. In all times and in all
places in which matrimony is considered not as a personal matter of
sentiment, but as a social act which must be regulated and directed by
the parents, the object is to marry off the young people as quickly
as possible. Often they are actually betrothed when they are still
children, and share each other’s games of running and jumping. This
was a fairly common practice in ancient Rome amongst the nobility, as
it is a thriving custom in the China of to-day. Nor is it difficult to
understand the reason for this procedure, which, considered by itself,
seems to us extravagant and senseless. Love in all times and in all
places is a most intractable passion. It is, therefore, more easy in
such matters, for the elders to impose their wills and cold-blooded
arrangements, on girls of fourteen or fifteen and boys of seventeen
or eighteen, than on women or men of twenty-five. Naturally such
precocious marriages, contracted between young people who had not
yet had a taste of the world, were not free from dangers and serious
inconveniences. But these dangers and inconveniences appeared to
contemporary eyes less great than those which would have arisen, if the
young had been left to follow the dictates of their own feelings.
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