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Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
India; Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max), 1823-1900 -- Friends and associates
Vedântist, he cannot be too near to his God; nay, to be without Him but
for one moment would be death and annihilation to him.
Such ideas are no doubt strange to most of us, but if we cannot as yet
make them our own, we should at all events give Râmak_ri_sh_n_a and his
followers credit for holding them honestly.
MY INDIAN FRIENDS.
III.
Behramji Malabâri.
Intimately connected with the reform of religion in India were social
reforms, such as the education of women, the recognition of widow
marriages, the fixing of the marriageable age of boys and girls, &c. The
burning of widows or of Suttees, had been boldly put down by the English
Government years ago; though, as we saw, it was still defended as
resting on Vedic authority by so learned and enlightened a man as
Râdhâkânta Deva. But, though widows were no longer burnt, their life as
widows was in many cases worse than death. Owing to the system of very
early, and what has been truly called, child-marriages, the number of
child-widows is, and has been for many years, very large in India; and
the only means of reducing their number was to prohibit early marriages
altogether. The chief actors in this good work were my friend Behramji
Malabâri, and another dear friend, Râmabâi, both still alive and hard at
work in the good cause. The former was chiefly bent on preventing these
premature marriages, the latter on taking care of the victims of that
pernicious system. We need not enter here on purely physiological
questions, for here the answer is always ready that marriage at the
early age of seven or eight can mean no more than betrothal. That in the
East, men and women are more precocious in their physical development is
an assertion rather than an established fact. But it is not the body
only, it is the mind that has to be considered, and what can be the
mental condition of a child-wife of seven, nay, even of fourteen? How
such a system ever sprang up, it is difficult to say. It was not the old
Indian system. It may have originated at the time of the Mohammedan
conquest, married women being supposed to be more respected by the
conquerors than unmarried girls. At present its fatal effects are but
too clear, in the premature decay of the women, in the weakness of their
offspring, and, more particularly, in the large number of child-widows.
No wonder therefore that a man of Malabâri’s patriotism and sense of
duty should have devoted himself body and soul, and purse too, to the
abolition of that evil. Though there were many to sympathise with him
and to help him, still there was also strong opposition, and from
quarters where one would least have expected it. Malabâri was a Parsi,
and the Hindus did not like to be lectured by an outsider. If their
dirty linen had to be washed at all, they wished to have it washed at
home by their own washerwomen. Others, though admitting abuses, gave a
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