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Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friends
Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
India; Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max), 1823-1900 -- Friends and associates
most idyllic picture of the first love of young children, which extended
its blessing over the whole of their lives, while the European system
led to endless misery, to broken hearts, to divided affections, and
sometimes even to a sundering of ties which in the eyes of the Hindus
can never be sundered.
There have been many strong protests from numbers of well-conducted
families in India who deny altogether that child-widows, or any widows,
are subject to cruel treatment, and who maintain that early marriages
have by no means all the evil effects which are charged against them.
There are exceptions, no doubt, to everything, but I doubt whether these
exceptions can make up for the mischief caused by the system of early
marriages as still prevalent in India. And what is there that can be
urged in favour of a system which even its strongest supporters can only
defend as less monstrous than it appears to be. We are told[9] that in
Bengal a young husband is able to educate his young wife. That sounds
very well. But in a Hindu family a married child is not supposed even to
see her husband during the daytime, so that the education, whatever that
may mean, could only take place in the stillness of the night, not the
most propitious time after a day of constant work. We are likewise told
that a child-wife divides her year in two halves. One of them she spends
with her parents, this being a sort of vacation time, and the other she
spends at the house of her husband’s parents, this being confessedly the
time of daily drudgery. In well-ordered families the young wife is never
allowed to live with her husband permanently till she has reached her
fourteenth year.
This defence, however, does not amount to much, and though we may quite
believe that in good families the evils of the system of child-marriage
are very much mitigated, the system itself is unnatural, full of
dangers, and certainly lowering, both physically and morally, to the
mothers of India.
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