Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friendsMüller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
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Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friends
Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
India; Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max), 1823-1900 -- Friends and associates
The most unexpected defender of child-marriages appeared in Ânandibâi
Joshee, a young Hindu lady who had gone to America to study medicine,
and, after taking her medical degree at the Women’s Medical College of
Pennsylvania in 1886, was appointed Physician-in-charge of the Female
Ward of the Albert-Edward Hospital at Kolhapur, and died in 1887 at the
early age of twenty-two. She was evidently a most enlightened lady, and
a great friend of Râmabâi. But when she had been asked, in 1884, to
lecture on child-marriages, she surprised her large American audience by
defending the national custom of early marriage. I am sorry I have never
been able to see her lecture, but it shows at all events that the
abolition of that custom was not so universally desired as it ought to
have been, and by no means so easy in India as it might appear to us. We
are told that the early betrothal of boys and girls made their mutual
affection more natural and firm, and added the feelings of brother and
sister to those of husband and wife. It was fondly hoped that under such
circumstances the idea of anybody else ever taking the place of the
first beloved one would be altogether impossible. Many other arguments
were adduced in support of what seemed a national, time-hallowed, and
almost sacred custom, but they soon crumbled away at the touch of so
well-informed and determined a man as my friend Malabâri. I do not know
how many voyages he has made to England to insure sympathy and help. He
has spent years in travelling all over India and gaining support for his
crusade. He has told us that he is a poor man, but whatever he possessed
or gained, he seems to have given up for the main object of his life. I
am quite willing to believe that in the better families the evil
consequences of premature matrimony are guarded against, just as I
cannot altogether withhold my belief from those who declare that in good
families child-widows, and in fact all widows, are treated with sympathy
and respect. But without denying such exceptions, it was the rule or the
custom, such as he knew it to exist, that roused the indignation of
Malabâri. He may be congratulated on having lived to see some at least
of the fruits of his devoted labours. Assisted by his friends, both
native and English, he carried at last a Bill which fixed the respective
ages of freedom to marry at eighteen and twelve. This was a decided
victory; still the battle is by no means over, and probably never will
be till the marriageable age of girls is raised at least to sixteen, and
that of boys to twenty. It was twenty-four in Vedic times. That every
kind of abuse was heaped on Malabâri need not surprise us; still his own
conscience must tell him that he has done a real service to millions of
human beings, and removed from his country a slur that had lowered it in
the eyes of all civilised nations. It is highly creditable to him that
he declined all rewards and honours offered to him at the end of his
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