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Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friends
Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
India; Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max), 1823-1900 -- Friends and associates
To be a widow at all is hard enough, but nothing can be more miserable
than the lot of a young widow in India, whose life may be said to be
over before it has begun. Widows are looked upon in their own homes as
beings of evil omen, as having deserved their misfortune by some unknown
misdeeds in this or, what is worse, in a former life, and, particularly
if childless, they are treated no better than servants, whether in the
house of their parents-in-law, or even in the house of their real
parents, if they are allowed to return there. They are shunned, excluded
from all amusements, obliged to wear coarse garments, deprived of their
ornaments, and often condemned to have their heads shaved, a great
indignity in the eyes of every woman. What a life to look forward to for
a girl, often, it may be, not yet sixteen years old! No wonder that they
should often commit suicide, or fall still lower by being driven to lead
an immoral life. It is to ameliorate the lot of these unhappy creatures
that Râmabâi has been working for years, chiefly at Poonah. She is
certainly a most courageous woman, not to be turned away from her
purpose by any misfortunes or any threats.
I saw much of her when she stayed with us at Oxford, but the most
eventful part of her career belonged to an earlier period. With what she
told me then, and what has been published since by Mrs. R. L. Bodley in
the Introduction to Râmabâi’s account of the “Life of a High-Caste Hindu
Woman” (Philadelphia, 1887), we begin to understand the high aims of
this truly heroic Hindu lady, in appearance small, delicate, and timid,
but in reality strong and bold as a lioness. Her life, so far as we know
it from herself and from others, draws away the veil behind which so
much that is really of the deepest interest to us, is hidden in the
East. Here we see first of all from her own case how carelessly
marriages are often arranged in India. Râmabâi’s grandfather, who
belonged to an old and very illustrious Brâhmanic family, the Kauthumas,
was on a religious pilgrimage with his family, that is, his wife and two
daughters, one nine, the other seven years of age. One morning, when
bathing in the Godâvarî, he saw a fine-looking man in the river, and
after inquiring for his caste, his clan, and his home, and finding out
that he was a widower, he offered him his eldest daughter, that is, a
child of nine, in marriage. All things being satisfactorily settled in a
few hours, the marriage took place the next day, and the stranger
started with his child-wife for his home, nearly nine hundred miles away
from the child’s own home, while the father continued his pilgrimage,
unconcerned any longer about the fate of his daughter. However, the
marriage, though we might call it hasty and imprudent, turned out well,
and her husband, who was a great Sanskrit scholar, a pupil of
Râmachandra _S_âstri, not only was kind to his little wife, but was most
anxious to teach her the sacred language. This was a very unusual
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