Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friendsMüller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
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Auld lang syne. Second series : $b My Indian friends
Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max)
India; Müller, F. Max (Friedrich Max), 1823-1900 -- Friends and associates
These sufferings were not over yet. She had now no one to look to but
her brother, and without some male support the life of a single woman is
simply impossible in India. For some years brother and sister travelled
together on foot all over India, earning what they wanted for their
support by their recitations of Sanskrit texts, and afterwards by
lecturing on the degraded position of women in India. Arrived in
Calcutta Râmabâi’s lectures excited great interest. But now followed a
new blow. Her brother died, and from sheer necessity she had to take a
husband. The marriage turned out perfectly happy, but after nineteen
months of quiet married life there followed a new blow. Her husband
died, and she was left a widow with one daughter, whom she called
Manoramâ, or Heart’s Joy.
Her case seemed desperate indeed, but she was upheld by her strong
desire to fit herself for useful work among her own countrywomen.
Helpless as she was, she resolved to go to England in order to study
medicine. This was a bold decision, and required more moral courage than
Napoleon’s march to Russia.
Member of a high-caste Brâhman family though she was, the mere prejudice
against crossing the black water would hardly have affected her, but she
was very poor. All she possessed was a small sum of money which she had
earned by her lectures and by translations done for Government, and how
was she to pay for her passage and to support herself, her child, and a
friend who was to accompany her to England? But undeterred by any fears
she started with her little daughter and a female friend, and when she
arrived in England, almost destitute, she fortunately found shelter for
a time with the Sisterhood at Wantage, some members of which she had
known at Poonah. But even then her tragedy was not yet ended. She had
declared to the Sisters that, grateful as she felt for their kindness,
she would never become a Christian, because, as she often said, a good
Brâhmanî is quite as good as a good Christian. Her friend, however, was
frightened by the idea that she and Râmabâi would be made Christians by
force; and to save Râmabâi and herself from such a fate, she tried one
night to strangle her. Failing in that, she killed herself. It was after
this terrible catastrophe at Wantage that Râmabâi came to stay with us
at Oxford, and such was her nervous prostration that we had to give her
a maidservant to sleep every night in the same room with her. Nor was
this all. After all arrangements had been made to enable her to attend
medical lectures at Oxford, her hearing became suddenly so much affected
that she had to give up all idea of a medical career. She then
determined to study nursing, and thus fit herself for useful work in
India. Then came an invitation from America to be present at the
conferring of a medical degree on her countrywoman, Ânandibâi Joshee, of
whom I spoke before, and being once there, she soon succeeded in gaining
many friends, who helped her to start a refuge or Âsrama for
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