Autobiography of Seventy Years, Vol. 1-2Hoar, George Frisbie
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Autobiography of Seventy Years, Vol. 1-2
Hoar, George Frisbie
United States -- History -- 1865-1921; United States -- Politics and government -- 1865-1900
"She was not only the most amiable, but the tenderest of
women, wholly sincere, thoughtful for others, and, though
careless of appearances, submitting with docility to the
better arrangements with which her children or friends insisted
on supplementing her own negligence of dress; for her own
part indulging her children in the greatest freedom, assured
that their own reflection, as it opened, would supply all
needed checks. She was absolutely without appetite for luxury,
or display, or praise, or influence, with entire indifference
to trifles. Not long before her marriage, one of her intimate
friends in the city, whose family were removing, proposed
to her to go with her to the new house, and, taking some articles
in her own hand, by way of trial artfully put into her hand
a broom, whilst she kept her in free conversation on some
speculative points, and this she faithfully carried across
Boston Common, from Summer Street to Hancock Street, without
hesitation or remark.
"Though entirely domestic in her habit and inclination, she
was everywhere a welcome visitor, and a favorite of society,
when she rarely entered it. The elegance of her tastes recommended
her to the elegant, who were swift to distinguish her as they
found her simple manners faultless. With her singular simplicity
and purity, such as society could not spoil, nor much affect,
she was only entertained by it, and really went into it as
children into a theatre,--to be diverted,--while her ready
sympathy enjoyed whatever beauty of person, manners, or ornament
it had to show. If there was conversation, if there were
thought or learning, her interest was commanded, and she gave
herself up to the happiness of the hour.
"As she advanced in life, her personal beauty, not remarked
in her youth, drew the notice of all, and age brought no fault
but the brief decay and eclipse of her intellectual powers."
In 1833, three years before Emerson wrote "Nature," Mrs. Ripley
said of him: "We regard him still, more than ever, as the
apostle of the Eternal Reason. We do not like to hear the
crows, as Pindar says, caw at the bird of Jove."*
[Footnote]
* On the stone which marks Mrs. Ripley's grave in the beautiful
cemetery at Concord, her children placed an inscription containing
a part of the passage with which Tacitus ends his Life of Agricola.
"It was a passage which was specially dear to her," says her
biographer; "many of her friends will recall the fine glow of
feeling with which she read or quoted it; and to these it will
always be associated with her memory. I cannot better close this
imperfect sketch of her life than by giving the whole of it: of
no one was it ever more worthily spoken than of her. The words
enclosed in brackets are those which are on her gravestone."
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