Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the EastHume-Griffith, M. E.
Philosophy
Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
Hume-Griffith, M. E.
Arabian Peninsula -- Social life and customs; Iran -- Social life and customs
"The household must weep for forty days on the birth of a girl."
Arabic Proverb.
"Is it all forgot? All schooldays' friendship,
Childhood's innocence?"
Shakespeare.
"Where children are not, heaven is not."
A. Swinburne.
The children of Mosul have on the whole a very good time. From their
earliest days they are allowed to do pretty much as they like, and
only when the process of spoiling is completed, and the child has
become a terror to all, do the parents realise that it is far easier
to spoil a child than to "unspoil" him, once the deed is done. This
method, or rather lack of method, of bringing up the children, is a
great cause of trouble and sorrow in after years both to the parents
and to the children themselves, but yet they never seem to profit by
their experiences, for they still continue to say that it is a great
"aib" or shame to deny a child anything he may want. Although this
spoiling process is carried on with both boys and girls in the earlier
years of their lives, it is brought to perfection in their treatment
of the boys.
I remember a pretty little child called Jamila (beautiful); she
was so fair and pretty that she was known by many as "the English
child." When she was about three years old she became very ill, and
the mother brought her to my husband, who prescribed for her, but said
that the chief part of the treatment lay in the diet. On no account
was solid food to be given for at least three or four days. The mother
looked in despair when she heard this, as she said, "Jamila will cry
if she cannot have her meat and bread and pillau!" A day or two later
I was calling at the house, and saw that Jamila was looking very ill,
and asked the mother what the child had been eating. "Oh," she said,
"poor little child, I had to give her meat and bread, for she tore her
hair and clothes in her anger, on my refusing to give them to her,
and so, how could I deny them to her?" And sure enough, while I was
there, Jamila began to cry for bread, and on her mother refusing, threw
herself on the ground in a paroxysm of anger, beating her head and
face with her clenched fist, till she was quite blue and black in the
face. The mother ran at once and brought bread and meat, and gave to
the child, who immediately recovered her equanimity of mind and temper.
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