Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the EastHume-Griffith, M. E.
Philosophy
Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
Hume-Griffith, M. E.
Arabian Peninsula -- Social life and customs; Iran -- Social life and customs
"Only a girl"--"Only a girl." These are the words which generally
follow the announcement of the birth of a girl. Poor little mite,
her entrance into the world is not a cause of great joy or rejoicing,
and from her earliest days, I think, this lies as a shadow upon her;
for to my mind there is a sadness and pathos about the little girls
quite different to the masterful looks and ways of the boys, the
lords of creation. As it is a part of the Moslem's creed to bow in
submission to the will of God, so the parents now, as always, say,
"It is God's will" ("Al Allah"), and bow their heads in submission
to this new yoke put upon them. Of course there are exceptions,
and some love their little daughters very much, but taken as a rule,
girls are not welcome--certainly not more than one. If the parents of
the girl baby are well-to-do, perhaps they may sacrifice one sheep,
but the feastings and almsgiving are done in a much quieter way and
with as little ostentation as possible; and if you visit the mother
it is not necessary to say very much about the new arrival as it is
"only a girl," and it is not well to make the poor mother feel too sad.
So the little girl starts her life, with not too much love and
attention. If she happens to be well and strong she will thrive apace
in spite of all, but if she is at all inclined to be weak or delicate,
the chances are that she will be neglected until it is too late for
human aid, and then perhaps, as a conscience salve, she will be taken
to the doctor by the mother or some other relative. How many of these
little victims have been brought when too late to my husband I should
not like to say. Directly the doctor sees a child suffering from some
terribly neglected disease he at once says, "A girl, of course! If
the child had been a boy you would have brought him long ago." And so,
alas, it is true of many cases. It is a convenient way of getting rid
of some of a too numerous family of girls, and then the mothers and
relations will piously clasp their hands and say, "It is the will of
God." The will of God, indeed! This so-called submission to the will of
God, or "kismet" or "naseeb," as the Turk and Arab call it, is often
responsible for a great deal of neglect by mothers of their little
girls. For instance, there was such a nice-looking young widow who
used to come and see me. She had two children, both girls, the elder
about five years of age, and the younger nearly three. This younger
child was a perfectly beautiful child--just like a lovely wax doll;
indeed, so much did she resemble a doll that she was often called
"l'abbi," which means a doll. Her sweet little face had a complexion
which any English mother might have been proud of, and her large
brown eyes were full of life and fun, while her dear little golden
curls falling over her forehead and forming a halo round her head
gave her an appearance of a little cherub. I found out very soon
that this child had the beginnings of a terrible disease in her,
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