Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the EastHume-Griffith, M. E.
Philosophy
Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
Hume-Griffith, M. E.
Arabian Peninsula -- Social life and customs; Iran -- Social life and customs
But to return to our ladies. Not only do I visit in the hareems of the
towns, but the hareems very often pay me a visit at our house. The
poorer class of women come very freely, and they know that they are
always welcome. We have a room specially set apart for women visitors,
so that they may feel quite safe from any men servants who might
happen to be about. The higher-class ladies do not come so frequently,
the idea being that the more strictly they keep to their own hareem,
the more select and important will they become in the eyes of the
people. There is one family in Mosul who boast that their hareem have
never visited any other house. So strictly have the ladies been kept
in seclusion, that they were not even allowed to go to the "hammam"
(bath) till quite lately. Now, however, they are allowed the luxury of
once a month walking a hundred yards or so to the nearest bath. After
becoming acquainted with the ladies of this hareem I was very anxious
to obtain permission for them to come and visit me. They did not at
all hold out any hope that their lords and masters would allow such
an unheard-of proceeding. One day, however, my husband told the head
of the house that I was very anxious for the ladies of his hareem
to come and see me. To the great surprise of all he acquiesced, only
stipulating that the visit should be kept as secret as possible. The
ladies were very excited, and for days beforehand were talking about
the proposed visit and making preparations for it. On the day fixed
the way had to be cleared of all menkind. The doctor was banished
from the house for the whole afternoon, the men servants were given
a holiday, and all doors through which a stray man might happen to
wander were carefully bolted and barred.
At the hour appointed a woman servant arrived to know if all was
ready. When she had satisfied herself that no men were visible, nor
could become so unexpectedly, she returned to fetch the ladies. They
arrived in all the glory of black silk chuddars, which Judy (our
woman servant) carefully removed and folded up. The two older ladies
were quite simply dressed in print or muslin, but the young wife
was decked out in one of her many bridal costumes, and looked very
charming. She was then only about sixteen years of age, but was the
mother of two pretty children, a girl and a boy. They were all so
delighted to be allowed out for the first time in their lives. We
began by eating cucumbers and water-melons, followed by tea, coffee,
and English biscuits and cakes. These latter they much appreciated,
asking permission to carry away some for other members of the hareem to
taste. After refreshments had been partaken of they were very anxious
to see all over the house. As we went from room to room it was so
funny to hear their remarks. The bedroom seemed to take their fancy
most of all, as they could not see why we needed a room specially
for sleeping in.
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