Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the EastHume-Griffith, M. E.
Philosophy
Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
Hume-Griffith, M. E.
Arabian Peninsula -- Social life and customs; Iran -- Social life and customs
But to proceed to other and more pleasing customs--let us pass
from death to life. When a child is born in Mosul, whether Moslem
or Christian, the first idea of the parents is to protect the child
from the baneful influence of the Evil Eye. The usual custom is to
thread a gall, and suspend it round the neck of the infant. Moslems
enclose a portion of the Koran in a little bag, and fasten that round
the arm of the child or sew it on to the cap. The custom of wearing
charms to avert the Evil Eye is very prevalent, and deeply rooted in
the minds of the Mosul people.
The kissing of hands is a very pretty custom. Children are all taught
to do this even before they can speak or walk. Servants are always very
anxious to kiss your hands after they have done something especially
annoying or irritating. They make a grab for your hand, and kiss it
before you realise what they are doing. In this way they secure your
forgiveness before the fault is confessed. I am getting more wary now,
and prefer to hear first what they have done before letting them kiss
my hand. It is also a sign of gratitude. Upon receiving any backsheesh
or present, the recipient is always ready to kiss your hand. Sometimes,
when riding through the city, I have had my hand grasped and kissed
by some passer-by who has been an in-patient in the hospital, and
wished to show his gratitude in this way. It requires a great deal
of gratitude or love for a man to kiss a woman's hand, so, when by
chance it does occur, I feel very much honoured indeed.
There is one custom which is often the cause of a great deal of
heartburning, even as it was in the days of Haman and Mordecai. It is
usual for a host or hostess to rise from their seat upon the arrival
of each guest--that is, if they desire to do honour to that person. As
a rule this custom is most carefully adhered to, but it lends itself
admirably to any one wishing to be rude to his guest or to shame him
before his friends. Fortunately, this is not often the case, but when
it does happen one feels very uncomfortable. There is one dear old lady
in Mosul, who thinks it beneath her dignity to rise to a Feringhi. But,
perhaps, it is excusable for her as she is a Hadji--that is, one who
has made the pilgrimage to Mecca, and, consequently, is treated as
an exalted being by all her friends and relations.
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