Benjamin Franklin, Self-Revealed, Volume 1 (of 2): A Biographical and Critical Study Based Mainly on his own WritingsBruce, Wiliam Cabell
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Benjamin Franklin, Self-Revealed, Volume 1 (of 2): A Biographical and Critical Study Based Mainly on his own Writings
Bruce, Wiliam Cabell
Franklin, Benjamin, 1706-1790
The affectionate interest felt by Franklin in his sister extended to her
husband and children. Some of his letters were written to Jane and Edward
Mecom jointly, and he evidently entertained a truly fraternal regard for
the latter. The fortunes of the children he endeavored to promote by every
means in his power. Benny Mecom was placed by him as an apprentice with his
partner in the printing business in New York, Mr. Parker, and one of his
most admirable letters is a letter to his sister Jane, already mentioned by
us, in which he comments upon a complaint of ill-treatment at the hands of
Mr. Parker which Benny had made to her. The wise, kindly and yet firm
language in which he answers one by one the heads of Benny's complaint,
which was obviously nothing more than the grumbling of a disaffected boy,
lacks nothing but a subject of graver importance to be among the most
notable of his letters. On the whole, it was too affectionate and indulgent
in tone to have keenly offended even such parental fondness as that which
led Poor Richard to ask, in the words of Gay,
"Where yet was ever found the mother
Who'd change her booby for another?"
But occasionally there is a sentence or so in it which makes it quite plain
that Franklin was entirely too wise not to know that the rod has a function
to perform in the management of a boy. Referring to Benny's habit of
staying out at night, sometimes all night, and refusing to give an account
of where he had spent his time or in what company, he said,
This I had not heard of before though I perceive you
have. I do not wonder at his correcting him for that.
If he was my own son I should think his master did not
do his duty by him if he omitted it, for to be sure it
is the high road to destruction. And I think the
correction very light, and not likely to be very
effectual, if the strokes left no marks.
In the same letter, there is a sly passage which takes us back to the part
of Jacques' homily which speaks of
"The whining schoolboy with his satchel,
And shining morning face creeping like snail,
Unwillingly to school."
I did not think it anything extraordinary [Franklin
said] that he should be sometimes willing to evade
going to meeting, for I believe it is the case with all
boys, or almost all. I have brought up four or five
myself, and have frequently observed that if their
shoes were bad they would say nothing of a new pair
till Sunday morning, just as the bell rung, when, if
you asked them why they did not get ready, the answer
was prepared, "I have no shoes," and so of other
things, hats and the like; or, if they knew of anything
that wanted mending, it was a secret till Sunday
morning, and sometimes I believe they would rather tear
a little than be without the excuse.
Franklin had dipped deeply into the hearts of boys as well as men.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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