Benjamin Franklin, Self-Revealed, Volume 1 (of 2): A Biographical and Critical Study Based Mainly on his own WritingsBruce, Wiliam Cabell
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Benjamin Franklin, Self-Revealed, Volume 1 (of 2): A Biographical and Critical Study Based Mainly on his own Writings
Bruce, Wiliam Cabell
Franklin, Benjamin, 1706-1790
Is it right [he asked] to encourage this monstrous
Deficiency of natural Affection? A Surgeon I met with
here excused the Women of Paris, by saying, seriously,
that they _could not_ give suck; "_Car," dit il, "Elles
n'ont point de tetons._" ("For," said he, "They have no
teats.") He assur'd me it was a Fact, and bade me look
at them, and observe how flat they were on the Breast;
"they have nothing more there," said he, "than I have
upon the Back of my hand." I have since thought that
there might be some Truth in his Observation, and that,
possibly, Nature, finding they made no use of Bubbies,
has left off giving them any. I wish Success to the new
Project of assisting the Poor to keep their Children at
home [Franklin adds later in this letter] because I
think there is no Nurse like a Mother (or not many),
and that, if Parents did not immediately send their
Infants out of their Sight, they would in a few days
begin to love them, and thence be spurr'd to greater
Industry for their Maintenance.
Among his most delightful observations are these on marriage in a letter to
John Sargent:
The Account you give me of your Family is pleasing,
except that your eldest Son continues so long
unmarried. I hope he does not intend to live and die in
Celibacy. The Wheel of Life, that has roll'd down to
him from Adam without Interruption, should not stop
with him. I would not have one dead unbearing Branch in
the Genealogical Tree of the Sargents. The married
State is, after all our Jokes, the happiest, being
conformable to our natures. Man & Woman have each of
them Qualities & Tempers, in which the other is
deficient, and which in Union contribute to the common
Felicity. Single and separate, they are not the
compleat human Being; they are like the odd Halves of
Scissors; they cannot answer the End of their
Formation.
Equally delightful are his observations upon the same subject in a letter
to John Alleyne after Alleyne's marriage:
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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