Better babies and their careRichardson, Anna Steese
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Better babies and their care
Richardson, Anna Steese
Infants -- Care; Infants -- Health and hygiene
Many mothers ask me about badly shaped hands, and stubby fingers. Even
these can be improved or remedied by patient care soon after the baby
is born. Press them firmly, steadily, into shape, a few minutes at a
time, every time the baby wakens. Of course, if bones are misshapen
they cannot be changed, but the stubby finger can be improved by
pressure—_if taken in time_. But it does no good to rub the fingers one
day and let them go three. It must be done patiently, regularly, and
gently, every day while the flesh, bones, and nails are soft.
Biting the nails is a habit which may develop in a very young child.
Many times this is a symptom of nervousness, but in the young child
this is more apt to be simply a habit without a reason. If the child is
old enough to be argued with it is much better to offer him some little
reward if he does not bite his nails and they grow out well-shaped and
beautiful. Try to make him see that they are something to be proud of.
He will soon learn to master the impulse. In a child too young to be
reasoned with it is better to remove the hands from the mouth firmly;
if this is not effective, rub the nails with a little powdered alum.
Picking at the nose may be the result of worms or of irritation of
the nostrils. If either of these two ailments is present the cause
must be removed. If it is purely a habit then it is a question of firm
discipline which even a baby can be made to understand.
Bed wetting, which is a habit that makes extra work for the mother
and causes discomfort for the child, may be a symptom of some chronic
ailment, or it may be lack of discipline and training. It sometimes
comes from incorrect diet, constipation, ringworm, irritation about the
genitals, enlarged tonsils, or adenoids. The doctor will decide whether
one or more of these defects is present. If not, then it becomes a
matter of discipline, which, however, is not achieved by punishment.
Only careful training will overcome this habit.
I have spoken in another chapter about setting the child on a little
chamber every hour throughout the day from the time he is eight or
nine months old. By following this practice the baby soon realizes
that to be wet is to be uncomfortable and wretched, and he will cry
out against it. Moreover, he will soon exercise his will to retain the
urine until time to sit on the chamber. As this cannot be done in the
night, up to the time he is eighteen months of age he is very apt to
wet the bed once or twice during the night; but when the ten o’clock
feeding is stopped and he has nothing to drink from 6 P.M. to 6 A.M.,
he gradually stops wetting the bed; and at two years of age he is
completely broken of the habit.
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