Better babies and their careRichardson, Anna Steese
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Better babies and their care
Richardson, Anna Steese
Infants -- Care; Infants -- Health and hygiene
If a child has not been trained in this way the mother now realizes
that the habit of wetting the bed is confirmed; and at three years old
or more she should start training him afresh by putting him on the
chair every hour throughout the day. In this way the functions of the
bladder gradually come under the control of the will. At the end of two
or three weeks, instead of placing the child on the chair every hour,
the intervals are lengthened to one and one-half hours; then to two
hours; and the mother suddenly wakes up to find that her child is dry
all during the day. At first he may have to be taken up three or four
times at night, but soon this can be reduced to two, and finally to
one. When he is six years old he will be broken of the habit and will
sleep soundly and be dry for ten or twelve hours.
If the habit is well-grounded the diet may be changed to effect a cure.
The last evening meal of the day should be almost dry, with just an
occasional sup of water to allay thirst; no liquids should be served
after 4 P.M. Butter may be served with a cereal, and apple-sauce used
to moisten the meal of bread, toast, or crackers. Never give a young
child tea or coffee. These are not juvenile beverages; and they are
especially bad for bed-wetting children.
If the habit has grown on the child, discipline alone will cure it.
If, however, it amounts almost to an acute disease, overtaking the
child suddenly after it has passed its second birthday, the baby should
be examined by the family physician.
Masturbation is a habit which every mother should dread. But she should
consider this, also, in the light of a symptom first and foremost. I
do not believe that average children, of average parents, are born
into the world depraved or with vicious tendencies. The terrible habit
of masturbation, which breaks down the child’s physical, mental, and
moral nature, and often turns a healthy, normal child into a defective,
may be caused by carelessness on the part of the mother. The genitals
are extremely sensitive and easily inflamed. If the parts are not
kept immaculately clean there is discomfort, which the child tries to
relieve by scratching the genitals, by rubbing them against the leg of
a chair or table or by rubbing the thighs against each other. It is a
simple and natural effort to secure relief from irritation, precisely
as a child scratches his arm or neck after being bitten by a mosquito.
For this reason the mother should wash the parts carefully, not only
while the child wears diapers, but as he grows older. When he is old
enough to wash himself the mother should explain the importance of
cleanliness in the care of the genitals. This is the time to speak the
firm word of warning against handling these parts. The child who has
been taught to obey in other things will obey these instructions.
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