Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
For our studies in sad monotone we must go to the wives of one section
of the “England-returned,” as they are called.
Try to picture this lady. She can speak her own vernacular, perhaps
read it, but Western influences have passed her by. Greatly skilled is
she in things domestic. She has watched her husband with awe through
the throes of his local university, and then he sails away out of her
ken to that unknown land beyond the “black waters” of separation. Dimly
through the years does she hear of him, and great fears are at her
heart as she thinks of the women he must meet in that land of “the
unveiled”; but these are fears she may tell to none. What pre-emption
can she have in his affections? Then he comes back, wearing a bright
pink shirt, an English top-hat, and patent leather shoes. He drives
a dog-cart, and divides his time between his office and his club; he
dines at English houses--new fears here for breach-of-caste rules....
But she worships nevertheless. To buy him blessings is still left to
her, and Indian wifehood was ever a school for altruism; but in a
family group you will grant the inharmoniousness of the anachronistic.
Let it be ceded here, however, that there is another sketch possible
of that “England-returned” one. Some diversity of interests cannot be
avoided; but I have known a few little wives whose Anglicized husbands
did their best to educate them, led them painfully through the new
ideas, brought them somewhat into the “reformed” life.
To myself the attempt has often seemed pathetic, trying “to walk with
one foot,” to “clap with one hand”; but our little lady is painted
this time in a glad luminosity of gratitude that, having seen the
world, he should still deign to care.
But sometimes the woman, too, has had chance of Western education. I
have known one or two of her kind in Bengal and Madras, more in Bombay.
Perhaps she passed through the stage transitional herself once; at any
rate, she has arrived all safely, keeping her pretty national dress,
keeping also her vernacular. A great part of her day must be re-made
for the ceremonies of orthodox Hinduism which she has discarded; yet,
something solid she has in its stead, since no influence will ever make
a Hindu woman irreligious, thank God.
She will talk to you of the struggles of the great Indian reformers,
of Ram Mohan Roy, of Chaitanya. She will separate for you, with true
discrimination, the symbol from the spirit in ancient Hindu philosophy.
I have even found her reading Jowett’s Plato, Emerson, Browning.
“My husband recommended these,” she explains. Him she companions as
sufficiently as does any woman of the West her husband, walks with him,
drives with him, and is not watched with hungry, jealous eyes, as are
the newly “emancipated” women of other Indian communities, whom some of
us have seen abroad for the first time in mixed assemblages of men and
women.
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