Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
Perhaps she is not as good a head domestic as her great-grandmother;
but service is merchantable, and, at any rate, she takes an intelligent
interest in the education of her children.
This much has Brahmoism (_i.e._, Hindu Theism) done at its best; and,
mistakes apart, it is not a bad “best” for a nation in transition.
The recoil from a too servile imitation of the West is bringing about a
wise admixture that may eventually prove really useful to the progress
of the nation.
Not yet have I touched upon the strictly veiled woman--the Hindu woman
in palaces or of certain parts of India, and the Mahommedan woman.
As queen, she is multiple; subtle tones of colour here, the peculiar
living tincture of great joys, great sorrows. I have known her bitter
with the consciousness of growing years and barrenness, lording her
seniority over her young and beautiful rivals--a shrew for whom surely
there is much excuse; and I have known her gentle to her co-wives as
to much-loved sisters, admiring of their graces, living with them in
kindly, humorous companionship. Nay, I have known better. I have known
her at so great a height of saintliness that, her own arms empty, she
will pray the gods to grant her rival the gift of motherhood.
Sometimes she is very young. I recall a pretty child of seventeen who
came to this particular queendom because her husband was successful in
procuring a white peacock!
“You may marry her,” had said the King, her father, to the suitor, “if
you can bring me a white peacock.”
He had not known that such things were, and when the expectant prince
produced a spotless ghost-bird, the King, for the sake of his word, had
to give him his daughter.
She was very happy in her new home; as it chanced, she was a unit,
and not one of a group. She had her own gorgeous apartments and
waiting-women. All day she turned over her pretty trinkets and
possessions, or made charms against the evil eye, or listened to
endless stories from the Court gossip; and at nightfall she played
hide-and-seek on the roof overlooking that garden where the peacock had
his place of honour.
Sometimes her husband would pay her a visit of ceremony, when she
would sit, eyes cast down, to answer his questions in monosyllables.
Sometimes she herself would visit her mother-in-law, falling at the
great lady’s feet in graceful salutation. I have known her very merry
when this formality was overpast. These visits were her only interludes
in monotony. Yet she was not unhappy. She had expected nothing else,
and more light and air fell to her lot than to that of many.
Seclusion is sometimes so rigid that it has been little better than
intermural imprisonment from one year’s end to another; no garden to
stroll in, no chance of ventilation of any kind or sort; no outside
interests or companionship. Nor would the women themselves thank you
for suggesting innovation. “Did our great-grandmothers live otherwise?”
they would ask.
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