Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
The majority suffer in silence; some gloriously, some ingloriously and
sadly rebellious. Some fall into the hands of the Widow Re-marriage
Committee, and are re-married. It is not for the onlooker to say
whether this solution is sufficient. A few are now beginning to find
that life has some use for a woman unmarried, even for her. They are
learning to earn their own living and to bless the world with honest
labour. She is buying back the curse, this widow who works, in a way
which must surely conserve for the nation much of that selflessness
which we claimed in the suttee, and certainly much more apparent
usefulness. As doctor, teacher, nurse, and in humbler walks of life,
which of us who know modern India have known and not blessed the
Hindu widow? For the first time, too, since the Vedic era, do we find
in India unmarried girls over ten years of age. This is the nearest
approach to spinsterhood in the East, and the spinster--she is very
rare--is almost always a self-respecting woman earning her own living.
I have said that the impetus of the age is towards individualism. How
can we keep the Hindu woman out of the great current?
The time when the nation could be served by a grovelling womankind--if
ever such time there was--is past.
A woman’s place in the National life will now best be filled by the
realization of herself; she must grow to her full stature, taking
as her due her share of God’s light and air, of the gifts of the
Earth-Mother.
She need lose none of those qualities which made her loved in
mythology, in the times of the Vedas, in history. Indian women have it
within their power to prove to the world that gentle womanly graces
are not incompatible with independence.
What a redemption of that curse of the widowed, what a revenge on Time,
if the widow herself take the foremost place in this regeneration of
Indian womanhood!
XII
GARDEN FANCIES
Everyone in India is familiar with the homely little _Tulsi_--the
sacred basil--with its aromatic brown spirals and dull green leaves. It
was sprawling across the drive of a house I had newly come to tenant,
and while my _Mali_ and I did tidyings in the Garden, I spoke to him
gently about the plant. “Move the sacred garden-person. Suppose some
day we drove over it and hurt it, quite by accident, what sin! See,
put it in a new hole yonder, by your own hut if you wish.” He is a
holy man, my _Mali_, from Puri, where dwells Jagannath of the Car with
his Brother and Sister; and he will not touch the _Tulsi_ till he has
bathed, saving for it his first draught of water of mornings. I could
only hope that my good intentions were credited. But he made no sign
beyond a reverence to the _Tulsi_, and a wagging of his head from side
to side, which I interpreted as “Forgive me” (to the plant), “do I not
eat the Huzoor’s salt? It is an order” (for me).
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