The meaning of the game was then not far to seek. It was connected with
the child’s remarkable cultural achievement—the foregoing of the
satisfaction of an instinct—as the result of which he could let his
mother go away without making any fuss. He made it right with himself,
so to speak, by dramatising the same disappearance and return with the
objects he had at hand. It is of course of no importance for the
affective value of this game whether the child invented it himself or
adopted it from a suggestion from outside. Our interest will attach
itself to another point. The departure of the mother cannot possibly
have been pleasant for the child, nor merely a matter of indifference.
How then does it accord with the pleasure-principle that he repeats this
painful experience as a game? The answer will perhaps be forthcoming
that the departure must be played as the necessary prelude to the joyful
return, and that in this latter lay the true purpose of the game. As
against this, however, there is the observation that the first act, the
going away, was played by itself as a game and far more frequently than
the whole drama with its joyful conclusion.
The analysis of a single case of this kind yields no sure conclusion: on
impartial consideration one gains the impression that it is from another
motive that the child has turned the experience into a game. He was in
the first place passive, was overtaken by the experience, but now brings
himself in as playing an active part, by repeating the experience as a
game in spite of its unpleasing nature. This effort might be ascribed to
the impulse to obtain the mastery of a situation (the ‘power’ instinct),
which remains independent of any question of whether the recollection
was a pleasant one or not. But another interpretation may be attempted.
The flinging away of the object so that it is gone might be the
gratification of an impulse of revenge suppressed in real life but
directed against the mother for going away, and would then have the
defiant meaning: ‘Yes, you can go, I don’t want you, I am sending you
away myself.’ The same child a year later than my observations used to
throw on the floor a toy which displeased him, and to say ‘Go to the
war!’ He had been told that his absent father was at the war, and he did
not miss him at all, giving the clearest indications that he did not
wish to be disturbed in the sole possession of his mother.[5] It is
known of other children also that they can give vent to similar hostile
feelings by throwing objects away in place of people.[6] Thus one is
left in doubt whether the compulsion to work over in psychic life what
has made a deep impression, to make oneself fully master of it, can
express itself primarily and independently of the pleasure-principle. In
the case discussed here, however, the child might have repeated a
disagreeable impression in play only because with the repetition was
bound up a pleasure gain of a different kind but more direct.
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