Blackwood's Edinburgh Magazine, Vol. 71, No. 438, April 1852Various
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Blackwood's Edinburgh Magazine, Vol. 71, No. 438, April 1852
Various
England -- Periodicals; Scotland -- Periodicals
"And lastly, but chiefly, I comforted my selfe, that my intent was
good, and that I was well assured God is the prosperer of good
purposes.
"Thus resolued, I writ this ensuing Letter to our little one, to
whom I could not finde a fitter hand to conuey it than thine owne,
which maist with authority see the performance of this my little
legacy, of which my Childe is Executor.
"And (deare loue) as thou must be the ouerseer, for Gods sake,
whō it shal faile in duty to God, or to the world, let not thy
indulgence winke at such folly, but seuerely correct it: and that
thy trouble may bee little when it comes to yeeres, take the more
care when it is young. First, in prouiding it a nurse: O make
choise, not so much for her complexion, as for her milde and honest
disposition. Likewise if the child be to remain long abroad after
waining, as neere as may be chuse a house where it may not learne to
sweare, or speak scurrilous words.
"I know I may be thought too scrupulous in this: but I am sure thou
shalt finde it a hard matter to breake a childe of that it learnes
so young. It will be a great while, ere it will bee thought old
enough to be beatten for euill words, and by that time it will bee
so perfect in imperfections that blows will not mend it. And when
some charitable body reproues or corrects it for these faults, let
no body pitty it with the losse of the mother.
"Next; good sweet heart, keepe it not from schoole, but let it
learne betimes: if it be a son, I doubt not but thou wilt dedicate
it to the Lord as his Minister, if he wil please of his mercy to
giue him grace and capacity for that great work. If it be a
daughter, I hope my mother _Brook_ (if thou desirest her) will take
it among hers, & let them all learne one lesson.
"I desire her bringing vp may bee learning the Bible, as my sisters
doe, good housewifery, writing, and good workes: other learning a
woman needs not: though I admire it in those whom God hath blest
with discretion, yet I desired not much in my owne, hauing seene
that sometimes women haue greater portions of learning than wisdome,
which is of no better vse to them than a main saile to a flye-boat,
which runs it vnder water. But where learning and wisdome meet in a
vertuous disposed woman, she is the fittest closet for all
goodnesse. She is like a well-balanced ship that may beare all her
saile. She is, Indeed, I should but shame my selfe, if I should goe
about to praise her more.
"But, my deare, though she haue all this in her, she will hardly
make a poore mans wife: Yet I leaue it to thy will. If thou desirest
a learned daughter, I pray God giue her a wise and religious heart,
that she may vse it to his glory, thy comfort, and her owne
saluation.
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