We learn from Herodotus that among the Sauromatæ, a people in the
northern parts of Europe and Asia, the women dressed in the habits of
men, and, like them, engaged in battle; that none were allowed to marry
till she shall first have killed her man. Hence it happened, we are
further told, that many died old maids, never having been able to fulfil
the conditions. How any population could be kept up under the existence
of such a law, no one now can question the historian. I suppose, from
the necessity of the case, that a reform was demanded, and more peaceful
marriages were the first-fruits of a free trade. It must have been an
adventurous thing for a man to marry a woman who had once killed her man
to obtain one husband; he might have lived in continual fear that she
might kill a second man to have another husband.
It appears that marriage, though it is nominally free, is under
restriction; were it otherwise, the increase of population would be far
greater. “In ordinary times a large proportion of the marriageable women
of every country are unmarried.” The writer might have spared his ink;
but he adds: “And the most direct action on the population is produced
by their entering the marriage state.” As one example may serve a
general purpose, the Census gives that of the south-eastern division,
comprising Surrey, Kent, Sussex, Hants, and Berks, in which “the number
of women of the age of 20, and under 45, amounted at the last Census to
290,209, of whom 169,806 were wives, and 120,403 were spinsters or
widows. 49,997 births were registered in the same counties during the
year 1850, or 10 children were born in 1850 to every 58 women living in
1851.” It is to be presumed that among matrimonial chances every lot is
a prize. The difficulty of a choice, where multitudes assemble,
maintains a law of hesitation—of indecision—by which it happens that
celibacy becomes wise, and is fond of repeating the philosopher’s advice
as to the time to marry: if young, not yet; if middle-aged, wait; if
old, never. Let us see how the reverse operates where the choice is very
limited. St Kilda, in the parish of Harris, is 70 miles away from the
mainland in the Western Hebrides; the population is 110—48 males, 62
females; 32 families in 32 houses. “There are 19 married couples on the
island, 2 widowers, 8 widows. _Five unmarried men, 5 unmarried women of
the age of 20, and under 46._” One would imagine these had only to meet
and to marry. Five is no great choice; the greater haste, you would
suppose, to take a partner. Is the solution to be found in this
extraordinary fact, that there is no clergyman to unite the couples
resident on the island? The five couples must wait; and as the clergyman
on the mainland may hesitate to go 140 miles to marry one couple, he is
probably waiting for all five to come to a decision. It must have been
some such unfortunate place as St Kilda which supplied the wit to the
epigrammatist upon the question of marriages ceasing elsewhere, the
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