Blackwood's Edinburgh Magazine, Volume 67, No. 411, January 1850Various
History
Blackwood's Edinburgh Magazine, Volume 67, No. 411, January 1850
Various
England -- Periodicals; Scotland -- Periodicals
And Mr Dixon thereupon launches into we know not what heroics upon
etiquette, upon English law, morals, and the constitution, all
_à propos_ of Henrietta's obedience! For our own part, we do not
look with much respect upon this stipulation which calls forth
the admiration of Mr Dixon, and apparently meets with his cordial
sympathy. Such a stipulation would probably be a mere nullity; with,
or without it, the stronger will would predominate; but if we are
to suppose it a really binding obligation, forming the basis of the
conjugal union, it presents to us anything but an attractive aspect.
It was the harsh feature in Howard's character, or the mistaken
principle that he had adopted--this love of an authority--this claim
to a domestic absolutism--which was to give no reasons, and admit of
no questioning.
In justice to the character of Howard, we must not leave this matter
entirely in the hands of Mr Dixon. Everything he draws is, more or
less, a caricature. The authority on which his narration is founded
is the following statement of the Rev. S. Palmer, given in Brown, p.
55:--
"The truth is," says Mr Palmer, in his manuscript memoir of his
distinguished friend, "he had a high idea (some of his friends
may think, too high) of the authority of the head of a family.
And he thought it right, because most convenient, to maintain
it, for the sake of avoiding the unhappy consequences of
domestic disputes. On this principle I have more than once heard
him _pleasantly relate_ the agreement he made with the last
Mrs Howard, previous to their marriage, that, _to prevent all
altercation about those little matters_ which he had observed to
be the chief grounds of uneasiness in families, he should always
decide. To this the amiable lady readily consented, and ever
adhered. Nor did she ever regret the agreement, which she found
to be attended with the happiest effects. Such was the opinion
she entertained, both of his wisdom and his goodness, that
she perfectly acquiesced in all that he did, and no lady ever
appeared happier in the conjugal bonds."
Here the matter has a much less repulsive aspect than in Mr Dixon's
version, who has, in fact, exaggerated, in his zeal, a trait of
Howard's character, which his best friends seem always to have
looked upon with more or less of regret and disapproval.
As the only other circumstance connected with Howard's domestic
life which we shall have space to mention, has also a peculiar
reference to this trait in his character, we will depart from the
chronological order of events, and allude to it here. His last wife
left him one child, a son. This son grew up a dissolute youth;
his ill-regulated life led to disease, and disease terminated in
insanity. To this last malady, Mr Brown tells us he is authorised to
say that there was a hereditary predisposition--we presume he means
upon the mother's side.
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