Blackwood's Edinburgh Magazine, Volume 67, No. 411, January 1850Various
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Blackwood's Edinburgh Magazine, Volume 67, No. 411, January 1850
Various
England -- Periodicals; Scotland -- Periodicals
Howard now entered into matrimony a second time. On the 25th April
1758, he married Henrietta Leeds, second daughter of Edward Leeds,
Esq. of Croxton, in Cambridgeshire. This alliance is pronounced by
all his biographers to be in every respect suitable. Parity of age,
harmony of sentiment, and, on the part of the lady, the charms of
person and amiability of temper, everything contributed to a happy
union. And it was so. Unfortunately, the happiness was as brief as
it seems to have been perfect. His second wife also expired after
a few years,--"the only years," Howard himself has said, "of true
enjoyment he had known in life."
On this occasion, Mr Dixon, after infusing into Howard "the bland
and insinuating witchery of a virgin passion," proceeds to describe
his Henrietta in the most approved language of the novelist:
"Although her features were not cast in the choicest mould of
Grecian beauty, she was very fair--had large impressive eyes, an
ample brow, a mouth exquisitely _cut_," &c. Shall we never again get
the chisel out of the human face?
Connected with this second marriage of Howard, his biographers
relate a trait of character which will be differently estimated by
different minds--we relate it in the words of Mr Dixon:--
"We must not omit an incident that occurred before the ceremony,
which is very significant of Howard's frankness and firmness
at this epoch. Observing that many unpleasantnesses arise
in families, from circumstances trifling in themselves, in
consequence of each individual wishing to have his own way
in all things, he determined to avoid all these sources of
domestic discord, by establishing his own paramount authority
in the first instance. It is just conceivable that his former
experience of the wedded life may have led him to insist upon
this condition. At all events, he stipulated with Henrietta,
_that, in all matters in which there should be a difference of
opinion between them, his voice should rule_. This may sound
very ungallant in terms, but it was found exceedingly useful in
practice. Few men would have the moral honesty to suggest such
an arrangement to their lady-loves at such a season; though, at
the same time, few would hesitate to make the largest mental
reservations in their own behalf. It may also be, that few young
belles would be disposed to treat such a proposition otherwise
than with ridicule and anger, however conscious _they_ might
be, that as soon as the hymeneal pageantries were passed, their
surest means of happiness would lie in the prompt adoption of
the principle so laid down.
"Would that men and women would become sincerer with each other!
The great social vice of this age is its untrustfulness."
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