My mother was my father’s favourite wife, but, being a chief, he had
several others, and necessarily our compound was a large one.
In the centre of one side of a large open space was the chief’s own
house, and next to it the open house for talking palavers, feasting,
&c. Then there were the houses of the women, one for each wife, where
she lived with her own children, and other houses for slaves. As we
boys grew older we built houses for ourselves in our father’s compound,
and in time it grew to be almost like a small village.
Those were good days, as far as we ourselves were concerned. We were
free to do as we liked; if we quarrelled, we fought it out, and the
strongest won; if we wanted meat or fish, we went to hunt in the
forest, or to fish on the river, and soon had a plentiful supply; and
in our gardens there was always as much vegetable food as we needed.
Sometimes the women had quarrels amongst themselves, and then we had no
peace for a time. They talked and talked, and scolded each other from
morning till night, and almost from night till morning, and there was
no sleep for any of us. Not even my father could put an end to these
rows: for the time being the women were masters of the situation and of
him. You see, the women provide us men with food, and if they are angry
with a man they starve him, therefore what can he do? He justs waits,
and by and by their anger is finished, and a time of peace ensues, and
possibly a feast.
I will tell you how we passed our days in the time of my childhood.
Every one rose with the sun, for our people do not think it good to
sleep late, and it did not take long to eat our morning meal of
manioca, and anything which had been kept over from the night before.
Then we began to scatter, some of the women to the large manioca
gardens at some distance in the forest, and others to fish in the
river. Sometimes they went fishing for a day only, at other times for
as long as a month. The length of time and the kind of fishing depends
on the season, whether the water is high or low, and what sort of fish
are plentiful. Some of the men and boys would go out to hunt with their
nets and spears, others would be busy making nets, canoes, paddles, and
cooking utensils, or doing smithy work, making spears, knives, or
ornaments for the women. The chief and elders of the village would
gather in the large shed and talk palavers, hear and tell news, smoke
and chat all day long.
We children would fish, go for picnics in the near forest, bathe in the
river, play games, quarrel and fight and make it up again, and return
to our play until we felt hungry, when we made our way homewards to
seek our mothers.
Towards evening, when the sun was slipping down, the men would come in
from the hunt, and the women from the gardens, from woodcutting in the
forest, and water-drawing at the springs, and then the cooking would
begin. All round us were women chatting, and little girls running
errands and helping them in various ways.
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