British freewomen : $b Their historical privilegeStopes, C. C. (Charlotte Carmichael)
History
British freewomen : $b Their historical privilege
Stopes, C. C. (Charlotte Carmichael)
Women -- Great Britain; Women -- History
We will take another example from a higher rank. Suppose a man has £300
a year, and is left a widower with four young children, he at once feels
the diminution of his income, through the increase of his needs. He must
have a housekeeper, at a salary, at least, of £25. Her keep costs him
another £30. He must find a daily governess to teach the children, and
walk with them. Without keep that may cost another £25. He has to pay
the dressmaker for making and repairing the children’s clothes, at least
£10. He has to pay workmen to hang pictures, put up curtains, to paint
the back-garden fence, or enamel the nursery bath; to cover the
drawing-room chairs, or patch the dining-room sofa, quite £10 a year.
His wife’s whole keep had been saved through greater care in purchasing
and managing food, and higher skill in cooking than either his
housekeeper or assistant-girl possesses; and the man has not only lost
the love and comfort of his wife, but the £100 a year which she
indirectly earned for him. He thought his income was £300 and was all
his own; he finds it had been really £400, as compared to the present
receipts of expenditure, and that the missing £100 had been earned by
her. He would have found this out had he allowed her to give
music-lessons as she wished to do, a light labour that she loved. Or she
might have written that weekly letter to the country paper she was asked
to do. She might have earned £100 a year at that, and that money would
have been _her own_ to spend in luxury or charity if she pleased, or to
have saved up for her children’s future. But then his tradesmen’s bills
would have been increased. It is absurd, therefore, to believe that a
wife’s earnings are limited to those hours that she takes from her
husband’s service and sells to some other employer of labour, who pays
her in so much coin of the realm.
But the _partner_ that touches the coin seems always to take the lead.
We may see this in the circumstances where the positions are altered,
as, for instance, among many fishing communities. There, though the men
go out at night and fish, the women not only do their domestic work, but
receive the fish, go out and sell it, make the necessary purchases, and
“bank” the remainder of the money. The superior intelligence and
relative social position of the women in fishing communities has often
been noted. I have heard it scornfully said of a fisher-girl, “She
marry? Why, she is not able to keep a man!” In this illustrative case,
the woman holds the purse, and her share in the family earnings is
recognised.
Now, if privilege is based on property, and property is based on labour,
how is an industrious woman shut out from the benefits of both? Why must
the man only have the earner’s vote? One vivifying revelation of our
half-century is the recognition of the nobility of labour. No one has so
gracefully expressed it as Mrs. Barret Browning in “Aurora Leigh,” when,
urging all to work, she adds:
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