British Goblins: Welsh Folk-lore, Fairy Mythology, Legends and TraditionsSikes, Wirt
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British Goblins: Welsh Folk-lore, Fairy Mythology, Legends and Traditions
Sikes, Wirt
Folklore -- Wales; Goblins -- Wales; Mythology, Celtic -- Wales; Mythology, Welsh; Wales -- Social life and customs
It is only by breathing the very atmosphere of an existence whose
primitive influences we may thus ourselves feel, that we can get a
just conception of the underlying forces which govern a custom like
this. Of course it is sternly condemned by every advanced moralist,
even in the neighbourhoods where it prevails. An instance came to my
knowledge but a short time ago, (in 1877,) where the vicar of a
certain parish (Mydrim, Carmarthenshire) exercised himself with great
zeal to secure its abolition. Unfortunately, in this instance, the
good man was not content with abolishing bundling, he wanted to
abolish more innocent forms of courting; and worst of all, he turned
his ethical batteries chiefly upon the lads and lasses of the
dissenting congregation. Of course, it was not the vicar's fault that
the bundlers were among the meeting-house worshippers, and not among
the established church-goers, but nevertheless it injured the
impartiality of his championship in the estimation of 'the Methodys.'
I am not sure the bundling might not have ceased, in deference to his
opinions, notwithstanding, if he had not, in the excess of his zeal,
complained of the young men for seeing the girls home after meeting,
and casually stretching the walk beyond what was necessary. Such
intermeddling as this taxed the patience of the courting community to
its extreme limit, and it assumed a rebellious front. The vicar, quite
undaunted, pursued the war with vigour; he smote the enemy hip and
thigh. He returned to the charge with the assertion that these young
people had 'schools for the art of kissing,' a metaphorical
expression, I suppose; and that they indulged in flirtation. This was
really too much. Bundling might or might not be an exclusively
dissenting practice, but the most unreasonable of vicars must know
that kissing and flirtation were as universal as the parish itself;
and so there was scoffing and flouting of the vicar, and, as rebounds
are proverbially extreme, I fear there is now more bundling in Mydrim
than ever.
FOOTNOTE:
[135] The Rev. Dr. Thomas, late President of Pontypool College, whose
acquaintance with Welsh customs is very extensive, (and to whose
erudition I have been frequently indebted during the progress of these
pages through the press,) tells me he never heard the word sopen or
sypio, synonymous with bundling, used for the old custom, but only
'caru yn y gwelu,' (courting abed.)
III.
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