Castes and Tribes of Southern India. Vol. 3 of 7Thurston, Edgar
History
Castes and Tribes of Southern India. Vol. 3 of 7
Thurston, Edgar
Caste -- India, South; Ethnology -- India, South; India, South -- Social life and customs; Tribes -- India, South
It is noted in the Malabar Marriage Commission's report that "among
carpenters and blacksmiths in the Calicut, Walluvanad and Ponnani
taluks, several brothers have one wife between them, although the son
succeeds the father amongst them." Polyandry of the fraternal type is
said to be most prevalent among the blacksmiths, who lead the most
precarious existence, and have to observe the strictest economy. As
with the Nayars, the tali-kettu kalyanam has to be celebrated. For
this the parents of the child have to find a suitable manavalan or
bridegroom by the consultation of horoscopes. An auspicious day is
fixed, and new cloths are presented to the manavalan. The girl bathes,
and puts on new clothes. She and the manavalan are conducted to a
pandal (booth), where the tali-tying ceremony takes place. This
concluded, the manavalan takes a thread from the new cloth, and
breaks it in two, saying that his union with the girl has ceased. He
then walks away without looking back. When a Kammalan contemplates
matrimony, his parents look out for a suitable bride. They are received
by the girl's parents, and enquiries are made concerning her. The
visit is twice repeated, and, when an arrangement has been arrived
at, the village astrologer is summoned, and the horoscopes of the
contracting parties are consulted. It is sufficient if the horoscope
of one of the sons agrees with that of the girl. The parents of the
sons deposit as earnest money, or achcharapanam, four, eight, twelve,
or twenty-one fanams according to their means, in the presence of
the artisans of the village; and a new cloth (kacha) is presented
to the bride, who thus becomes the wife of all the sons. There
are instances in which the girl, after the achcharam marriage, is
immediately taken to the husband's house. All the brother-husbands,
dressed in new clothes and decorated with ornaments, with a new palmyra
leaf umbrella in the hand, come in procession to the bride's house,
where they are received by her parents and friends, and escorted
to the marriage pandal. The bride and bridegrooms sit in a row,
and the girl's parents give them fruits and sugar. This ceremony is
called mathuram kotukkal. The party then adjourns to the house of the
bridegrooms where a feast is held, in the course of which a ceremony
called pal kotukkal is performed. The priest of the Kammalans takes
some milk in a vessel, and pours it into the mouths of the bride and
bridegrooms, who are seated, the eldest on the right, the others in
order of seniority, and lastly the bride. During the nuptials the
parents of the bride have to present a water-vessel, lamp, eating
dish, cooking vessel, spittoon, and a vessel for drawing water from
the well. The eldest brother cohabits with the bride on the wedding
day, and special days are set apart for each brother. There seems to
be a belief among the Kammalan women that, the more husbands they
have, the greater will be their happiness. If one of the brothers,
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