So far as I know, no scientific explanation of the origin of these
customs is forthcoming even to-day. We have plenty of philosophy to
tell us why these customs were honoured, but nothing to tell us the
causes of their origin and existence. _Sati_ has been honoured (_Cf_.
A. K. Coomaraswamy, _Sati: a Defence of the Eastern Woman_ in the
_British Sociological Review_, Vol. VI. 1913) because it is a “proof of
the perfect unity of body and soul” between husband and wife and of
“devotion beyond the grave;” because it embodied the ideal of wifehood,
which is well expressed by Umâ when she said “Devotion to her Lord is
woman’s honour, it is her eternal heaven: and O Maheshvara,” she adds
with a most touching human cry, “I desire not paradise itself if thou
art not satisfied with me!” Why compulsory widowhood is honoured I know
not, nor have I yet met with any one who sang in praise of it, though
there are a great many who adhere to it. The eulogy in honour of girl
marriage is reported by Dr. Ketkar to be as follows: “A really faithful
man or woman ought not to feel affection for a woman or a man other than
the one with whom he or she is united. Such purity is compulsory not
only after marriage, but even before marriage, for that is the only
correct ideal of chastity. No maiden could be considered pure if she
feels love for a man other than the one to whom she might be married.
As she does not know to whom she is going to be married, she must not
feel affection for any man at all before marriage. If she does so, it
is a sin. So it is better for a girl to know whom she has to love,
before any sexual consciousness has been awakened in her.”³ Hence girl
marriage.
³ _History of Caste in India_, 1909, pp. 32–33.
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