Character and conduct : $b A book of helpful thoughts by great writers of past and present ages
Philosophy
Character and conduct : $b A book of helpful thoughts by great writers of past and present ages
Calendars; Meditations
"This is why temper is significant. It is not in what it is that its
significance lies, but in what it reveals. But for this it were not
worth notice. It is the intermittent fever which tells of
un-intermittent disease; the occasional bubble escaping to the surface,
betraying the rottenness underneath; a hastily prepared specimen of the
hidden products of the soul, dropped involuntarily when you are off your
guard. In one word, it is the lightning-form of a dozen hideous and
unchristian sins."
_The Ideal Life_, HENRY DRUMMOND.
"Whenever you are angry, be assured that it is not only a present evil,
but that you have increased a habit."
EPICTETUS.
Temper
APRIL 13
"Certainly if a bad-tempered man can be admirably virtuous, he must be
so under extreme difficulties. I doubt the possibility that a high order
of character can co-exist with a temper like Touchwood's. For it is of
the nature of such temper to interrupt the formation of healthy mental
habits, which depend on a growing harmony between perception,
conviction, and impulse. There may be good feelings, good deeds--for a
human nature may pack endless varieties and blessed inconsistencies in
its windings--but it is essential to what is worthy to be called high
character, that it may be safely calculated on, and that its qualities
shall have taken the form of principles or laws habitually, if not
perfectly, obeyed. If a man frequently passes unjust judgments, takes up
false attitudes, intermits his acts of kindness with rude behaviour or
cruel words, and falls into the consequent vulgar error of supposing
that he can make amends by laboured agreeableness, I cannot consider
such courses any the less ugly because they are ascribed to 'temper.'
Especially I object to the assumption that his having a fundamentally
good disposition is either an apology or a compensation for his bad
behaviour."
GEORGE ELIOT.
Temper
APRIL 14
"Consider how much more often you suffer from your anger and grief, than
from those very things for which you are angry and grieved."
MARCUS AURELIUS.
"The _difficult_ part of good temper consists in forbearance, and
accommodation to the ill-humour of others."
EMPSON.
"Do we not know that the storm of feeling can be checked, if only we can
prevent the first word from being spoken, the first gesture from being
made. And is it not matter of common observation that persons who begin
by being Stoics in demeanour end by becoming Stoics in reality?"
_The Making of Character_, Professor MACCUNN.
Temper
APRIL 15
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