Children -- United States; United States -- Social life and customs -- To 1775
It is the standard resort of ignorant writers upon Puritanism, and
especially upon Puritanic severity, to give the name of Cotton
Mather as a prime expositor of cruel discipline. I have before me a
magazine illustration which represents him, lean, lank, violent,
and mean of aspect, with clipped head, raising a heavy bunch of rods
over a cowering child. He was in reality exceedingly handsome, very
richly bewigged, with the full, distinctly sensual countenance of
the Cottons, not the severe ascetic features of the Mathers, and he
as strongly opposed punishment by the rod as most of his friends and
neighbors favored and practised it. His son wrote of him:--
"The slavish way of education carried on with raving and kicking
and scourging, in schools as well as in families, he looked
upon as a dreadful judgment of God on the world: he thought the
practice abominable and expressed a mortal aversion to it.
"The first chastisement which he would inflict for any ordinary
fault, was to let the child see and hear him in an astonishment,
and hardly able to believe that the child would do so base a
thing. He would never come to give the child a blow, except in
case of obstinacy, or something very criminal. To be chased for
a while out of his presence he would make to be looked upon as
the sorest punishment in his family."
There can be found episodes of colonial history where the
disprejudiced modern mind can perceive ample need of the sharp
whippings so freely bestowed upon dull or idle scholars and
slow servants. Cotton Mather was too gentle and too forbearing
toward certain children with whom he had close relations. A "warm
birch" applied in the early stages of that terrible tragedy, the
Salem Witchcraft, to Ann Putnam, the protagonist of that drama,
would doubtless so quickly have ended it in its incipiency as to
obliterate it entirely from the pages of history.
[Illustration: William Verstile 1769]
CHAPTER XI
MANNERS AND COURTESY
_A child should always say what's true,
And speak when he is spoken to,
And behave mannerly at table,
At least as far as he is able._
--_A Child's Garden of Verse. Robert Louis Stevenson, 1895
In ancient days in England, manners and courtesy, manly exercises,
music and singing, knowledge of precedency and rank, heraldry and
ability to carve, were much more important elements in education
than Latin and philosophy. Children were sent to school, and placed
in great men's houses to learn courtesy and the formalities of high
life.
Of all the accomplishments and studies of the Squire as recounted
by Chaucer in the _Canterbury Tales_, but one would now be taught
in English college--music. Of all which were taught, courtesy was
deemed the most important.
"Aristotle the Philosopher
this worthye sayinge writ
That manners in a chylde
are more requisit
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